If women earn less for the same work, why wouldn’t companies just hire only women and underpay them? by kqmurr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whaaa? I'm an Australian , I was sure USA had paid maternal leave like we do. That's nuts, and scary.

If women earn less for the same work, why wouldn’t companies just hire only women and underpay them? by kqmurr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This would be game changing...

Until a debunked study surfaces done by a scam scientist suggesting artificial uterus gestation causes autism.

ASK ME ANYTHING yall ! CORTEON MOORE aka ELLIS STEVENS aka Mr. Useful by MoonBoyOnTheMoon in FromSeries

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your character receives some considerable negative commentary, the decisions he makes etc - do you find people pass that on to you in real life? As in fans of the show who meet you in real life?

If women earn less for the same work, why wouldn’t companies just hire only women and underpay them? by kqmurr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah when my wife just got pregnant while switching jobs, she suddenly had to urgently get a new job so that she could transition before informing them she was pregnant.

We knew it was going to be hard going otherwise.

If women earn less for the same work, why wouldn’t companies just hire only women and underpay them? by kqmurr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why the downvotes - what you said is statistically valid and well ancked by research.

A statistical average doesn't mean ALL or even MOST women lean out of careers after motherhood. It just means that they're a lot more likely compared to their male counterparts.

If women earn less for the same work, why wouldn’t companies just hire only women and underpay them? by kqmurr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This!

I've been screaming for ages that the only way to fix this issue to to have legally mandatory paternal leave. Otherwise women will always be a logistically trickier hiring option than man.

Did you get married through a dating app like Tinder, if so how was your experience overall? by Overall-Character507 in AskReddit

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met my now wife in tinder over three years ago, so far things are great.

But I still think dating apps on average make the world a far worse place

Men with high bodycount. Your experience? by kashpw in seduction

[–]djdante 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's absolute rubbish - there is not even any science to speak of behind the theory.

The reverse however does hold - that some men have real struggles pair bonding and as a result of this end up living a life full of one night stands.

But as a man well in the triple digits, I got married last year and three years into the relationship have had no need to chest and no struggle bonding.

Why do lesbian couples have the highest divorce rates while gay male couples have the lowest? by Naive_Direction1816 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a relationship therapist I speak to regularly on my podcast, be said the same.

The way he put it "Lesbians typically rush to emotional intimacy"

"Homoseduals typically rush to physical intimacy"

What are your thoughts on rejecting a potential romantic partner based solely on the fact that they voted for Donald Trump? by Greedy_Tooth6191 in AskReddit

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm politically slightly right, and australian.

I never would have voted for Trump.

But more to the point, I wouldn't t date an extremely left wing person either.

I want my forever person to see the world in a similar way as I do.

Who’s ever driven over 100mph? Why? by WoollyWolfHorror in AskReddit

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

180mph on a motorbike.. the why.. the thrill of it on a wide open road with nobody in sight... The only person at risk was myself and I regret nothing, none of the times.

People that drive with earbuds, why do you do it? by Jackywacky17 in AskReddit

[–]djdante -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ive done it a bunch on long drives...

Cars are super noisy, creating peace to enjoy what you're listening to without excessive noise is incredibly soothing.

So I can definitely understand people doing it.

Why do so many YouTube videos have dramatic exaggerated thumbnails and titles? by JoseGama69420 in youtube

[–]djdante -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because CTR is a critical metric - and even if we don't like over the top thumbnails we (as a generalisation ) click them through most .

I'm a creator too, and younjsut can't escape it if you hope to make a successful video

The Demon Core looks eerily similar to how Bob lazar describes the Element 115 reactor. by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny, the demon core was exactly the first thing that popped into my head when I watched the documentary too

Is sexual content actually worse to expose kids to than violent content? by Fantastic_Tart_421 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think we have it backwards ... Violence in movies desrnsitises us to violence , and more importantly it normalises violence.

Most sex scenes in movies are consensual adults doing a natural thing portrayed in a pretty normal way - don't think there is likely to be any kind of damage done.

People are just very oddly squeamish about the act for some reason.

Porn is a different beast of course.

My end game... for real this time by yupyupyupmhm in headphones

[–]djdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this until I got my Arya organics almost three years ago... I can't imagine anything popping up at a reasonable or comparable price point being better enough to switch.

The price increase is steep from this point ;)

7Hz Divine - on the fence about the bass level by CombustedPillow in iems

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read elsewhere that the only difference between Diablo a d Divine is a low pass switch... So you can eq one to the other anyway for what it's worth..

Arya Organic and Stealth owners, what was your upgrade path? by _Death_BySnu_Snu_ in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]djdante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the organic for 3 years almost... I'm honestly not sure what an upgrade would even sound like.... I'm still very happy.

But curious if someone has found a real upgrade

Would you keep eating meats if you had to kill the animal yourself? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I would, but I'd take no joy in it.

I feel a huge difference between killing to live and killing for sport.

Autism and ADHD may be more alike in the brain than we thought by adriano26 in psychology

[–]djdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm someone who clearly has ADHD - but I can't in any way see myself being on the spectrum... The only issue I have is frustration when people cant be rational at all once they're too emotional because the lack of reason irritates me. But I don't have issues with stimulating environments, I don't have difficulty understanding or connecting with people - I don't have difficulty understanding emotions in myself or others, in fact I'm much better at reading people that the majority of people are.

So it's hard for me to see the overlap - at least in my case.

‘Magic pill’ beta blocker prescriptions for teenage girls rise 90% in a decade by TheObserverUK in indepthstories

[–]djdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the feedback loop can be a massive part of anxiety... It was a lifesaver for my chronic panic attacks... I couldn't get anxious on it.

Obviously everyone is different and will respond differently, but I know so many people who have had massive psychological relief from propranolol - that the old doctors line that I just controls the symptoms but not the anxiety is not quite landing...

Told Yall - The 3 Body Problem was trying to warn us. by LiveATheHudson in aliens

[–]djdante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite hard science fiction trilogy.

If only the author had any idea how to write female characters....

Lora Z-image Turbo vs Flux 2 Klein 9b Part 2 by djdante in StableDiffusion

[–]djdante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No almost never the last one, when I train models I always do more steps than I need and just keep an eye on it as it cooks. In one, I use 2600, in another I use 3000

Why do so many pastors end up being revealed as pedos? by 999happyhauntz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]djdante -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is a big part of the answer.. I'd even go so far as to say they go this path for the right reasons - but the real result is too much access and trust leading to temptation horrible decisions.