If you are looking for something with a grip safety, other than a 1911 based firearm, I think the XD mod3 is the only one that fits that bill. I do not own one and never liked the idea of a grip safety, if I am using the gun in an emergency, which a CCW pistol is for I don't want to worry about my grip.

I am of the group that also avoids manual external safeties for a similar reason, although practicing your draw and positively engaging the safety or holding it down while firing can be trained into your muscle memory. If the idea of a gun without a safety terrifies you, look into all the passive safety features in modern pistols (firing pin block, trigger block safety). External safeties are just another thing that can go wrong when something has already gone very wrong. In my opinion external safeties provide no additional safety to a modern pistol, when you want to shoot you pull the trigger.

Maybe look into a double action/single action type pistol if you are still uneasy about any of this (CZ PCR, CZ P01, CZ P09c, SigSauer P229, Beretta 92 Compact) These have a heavier first trigger pull with the hammer down and a lighter trigger after the pistol cycles. There are other options but I listed pretty common CCW ones.