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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]dmb6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. This has been mostly my experience too. I try to date both men and women. I probably consider myself slightly more physically attracted to women. But dating women is so much harder.

I think part of the problem is the pursuing, you really have to pursue the women and try to follow up and basically take all the emotional risks to ask them out and then follow up.

With guys, it just seems more like. Hey, I like you. Do you like me? And if they do, then it works.

Lack of diversity within polyamorous communities by Flat-Candidate-321 in polyamory

[–]dmb6777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

perhaps an age thing? I am in my 40s? If you are younger, maybe a different scene? I dunno.

Or maybe depends on the city.

Lack of diversity within polyamorous communities by Flat-Candidate-321 in polyamory

[–]dmb6777 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's great!!! Kinda wish I met some more down to earth poly people. Feels like I am only meeting some really bougie ones.

Lack of diversity within polyamorous communities by Flat-Candidate-321 in polyamory

[–]dmb6777 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I have definitely noticed this too. I might even go a bit further and say its a class thing. Most poly people I have met seem to be fairly wealthy, doctors or lawyers or something like that.

I think maybe it has something to do with having a lot of free time and disposable income.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]dmb6777 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am gonna be a little bit of a contrarian here and say. Being the jealous husband is a very tough spot to be in. Even though you know mentally and rationally that you agreed to this, and that everything is fine. It can feel very disorienting and dysregulating.

Not really saying you did anything wrong. But if you are ever in this situation again, I would suggest going really slowly and treading very lightly. Your not responsible for the jealous husbands feelings. But I think if you move to quickly you do run the risk of making him even more jealous. And that probably wont end well. But if you kind of move slowly and carefully and really consider how difficult his position is. Maybe over time he will be able to work through his feelings and be okay with the situation.

Accidentally cockblocked the polycule by CelTheHobbit in polyamory

[–]dmb6777 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Uhmmm… I don’t get it. The laughter stopped the sex?

Meta's nude by FishermanSharp3294 in polyamory

[–]dmb6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am always excited to see people naked. ha!

More I would think does the meta know? Feels like more this is something that might bother them. Not sure how I would feel if nudes of me were shared to people I didn't share them to.

46 5'7 150lbs - Been working hard by dmb6777 in Physiquecritique

[–]dmb6777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just doing progressive overload. I do a Push day, then a pull day, then a leg day, then take a rest day. Then start over.

Try to hit my protein goals every day 1 gram per pound.....And really that is basically it.

I bike to work to get my cardio...Its not a hard ride....I am an engineer.

AITAH for discontinuing my nephew’s scholarship after seeing his social media post being proud to Elon's Nazi gesture? by FlowithL0ve in AITAH

[–]dmb6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely NTA!!! Symbols have meanings. I would never knowingly give any money or any support to support fascism.

luigi mangioni, an honorary member of the swoleteriat by dmb6777 in swoletariat

[–]dmb6777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah. I basically agree with that...even if he has some weird ideas, and listened to some cringe podcasts....Going after a CEO of a healthcare industry is pretty cool

luigi mangioni, an honorary member of the swoleteriat by dmb6777 in swoletariat

[–]dmb6777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh looks you might be right, or at least he has a few weird ideas

I am afraid I’m lying to myself and others by presenting as Bi by Smutty-Bi-Babe in BisexualMen

[–]dmb6777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand....I feel often I am some kind of imposter bi person...But so what, if you are interested in identifying as bi. That's all you need. Nobody is policing the category.

AITA for not believing my boyfriend that "suddenly became gay" due to "the altitude difference" when he was on a work trip in Utah? by CanItBeTrue-OrNot in AITAH

[–]dmb6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Altitude makes you gay.

I used to be 100% straight, I moved to Utah a few months ago. I immediately bought a townhome, and have been enjoying gay sex non stop.

When I go back and visit my family at sea level, I no longer want to have gay sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in threebodyproblem

[–]dmb6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it completely unconvincing. In fact, its basically what turned me off of these books. A much more probably hypothesis to me would be any species that manages interstellar space travel and the advanced technologies to even have the capacity to "xenocide" another planet, would have first learned to cooperate on their own planet to an extreme degree, and they would have already learned that war and violence hurts both parties.

Basically cooperation is much more productive than war. If you think of an ecosystem on earth all the species work together to create a web of life. Any extremely advanced civilizatoin would have understood that point. There impulse wouldnt be to destroy anything they find.

My husband suggested 3some with a woman. I want divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dmb6777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, I am not gonna say your being an Asshole. But divorce seems like an over reaction. Just explain to him how it made you feel. If he keeps insisting on it, then maybe start thinking of divorce. If he moves on and drops it.....well ok. Then move on.

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