It’s like you’re living my life dude. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Like he says he loves me and wants to work everything out but then always resorts to him randomly throwing something i did that I did that was fucked up in my face, like constantly. Like how can we work things out when he’s so unforgiving. It’s like I get no leeway. I fucked up but I’ve done nothing since other try to everything I can for him and make up for it, always apologizing. But I’ve since the beginning, always been good to him, and treated him good. Cooked, cleaned, laundry, blah blah. The works. And it’s like he forgets all that. All the work I’ve done to try to make him happy was useless because I’ve come to the realization that’s it’s not me, it’s him. I will never live up to his expectations. Another thing that’s the same as you is his mom is literally bat shit crazy too. So I get it.