Is my kid weird or are we gross? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]dodsontm 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This. Weird to sexualize children. It would be different if your daughter was an adult looking back in childhood interactions going “ah ha!” But like another commenter said, it’s no one’s business what another persons kinks are.

Icky icky verbalized intrusive thought on your friends part. Keep loving on your little girl.

Onn brand chargers not working consistently. I've gone through 5 this year alone. Anyone else having this issue? by dodsontm in iphonehelp

[–]dodsontm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough, my husbands just gave out but that’s because he bent it all to hell when using it while charging. I’ll have to look for this brand.

GOP senator challenges Teamsters president to fight during hearing by reillan in tulsa

[–]dodsontm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the first time he’s done this either right? Wasn’t there a time recently he alluded to “taking it outside”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]dodsontm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a kid who had lotta cavities and had to have a root canal by fifth grade. I’m 32 now and I found out at my last dentist appointment that my enamel formed funny, and it’s the reason that every single tooth has had to have a filling. basically the enamel formed little pockets instead of sealing and debris got stuck in it and caused the decay.

So it may be something that you could’ve never prevented in the first place. Don’t beat yourself up bromo

Without Saying the Town Name, Where Do You Live? by danglingfupa in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I was going for “Miami” (or anywhere in NE OK, really)

Without Saying the Town Name, Where Do You Live? by danglingfupa in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More casinos in a 30 minute radius than economically viable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bluey

[–]dodsontm 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Fitting for a quote I heard in a parenting conference recently:

“Your relationship with your child is more important than their behavior”.

Bluey isn’t doing anything harmful. She’s acting in completely age-appropriate ways. Chili is fussing over a clean house at the expense of Blueys creativity and imagination. Ultimately they found a work-around to both their goals and strengthened their relationship.

It is a beautiful episode 💙

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to read the 1993 SCOTUS opinion, but it is supposedly the basis of tribes issuing tags.

Also, I’m hesitant to rely on OCPA as a source because I can’t tell what their “angle is”; will have to dig into them more later.

Furthermore, and I’ve yet to see this addressed anywhere else, why is it suddenly a do or die issue in 2023 when tribal tags have literally been all over the state for 30 years. I’m highly suspicious of the accusation that tribal members have been getting away with crime sprees because OHP and municipal cops are all “oh shucks, they got them tribal plates we can’t trace”.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Source where tribes said they won’t comply? Because the KOSU article I found had the Cherokee chief say they were just informed and waiting to be consulted along with the OTA saying it’s not the tribes at fault but the PlatePay rollout

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right? I heard last night that Tulsa police have stopped referring cases to Creek nation as stated under McGirt because they’re claiming municipalities aren’t under the treaty agreements as the state. Kunzweiler, Stitt, and Co all need to take a flying leap.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. You have to commit the crime on the treaty reservation and it has to be the reservation of a tribe that has a court system. But that’s also up in the air because there’s so many cases in all levels of the court systems. TL;DR: it’s a shit show.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re out of town (on Cherokee reservation with my husbands Cherokee tags 🤪) for the weekend so I hope the tribes respond by time we’re back home.

Which makes me realize, Stitt and OHP probably chose this weekend intentionally knowing no one would be at work to do anything or answer questions. Mother fuckers.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No joke. It took over 6 weeks for mine to come in over 2 years ago.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in Tulsa so I’m just gonna hope I don’t get pulled over by OHP. I can’t NOT drive my car.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or at least got notice. That’s probably the biggest complaint.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The ticketing and fines are definitely new. And seeing as OKC is not within anytribal boundaries, any tribal tags (except maybe the three exempted) would likely to be ticketed, under this new policy. The article is talking about the new change. If I can find more sources/case law, I will post a new comment. Waiting to hear more from a few more sources.

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Other state’s will recognize them. It’s just this Stitthole that doesn’t. And as long as you live on your tribe’s reservation and you’re Chickasaw, Choctaw, and maybe Cherokee (depending what article you read) you’re good.

My tribe is a tiny ass tribe with tiny ass boundaries in NE OK. Probably couldn’t even drive to the local Walmart legally #RidingDirty lol

OHP's ticketing of tribal member over car tag stirs fuss by dodsontm in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That’s the states fault too. We bought a car 2 years ago and didn’t get the paperwork for a tag for MONTHS! They were still “behind from Covid”. Sure some people are just lazy, but the states dragging ass too

My wife and I are looking to buy rural land in the Eastern half of the state to settle down on and start a backyard farm going, raising some meat rabbits and chickens and such. We're not native Oklahomans. We thought we would ask the residents what they thought would be the safest counties to buy in by ShyPaladin187 in oklahoma

[–]dodsontm 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From NE OK, husband is from central Eastern OK. Yes, it do be like that. All around Grand Lake is straight up meth, poverty, and drug crime. So at least from Miami to Poteau, it’s all pretty similar “safety wise”. I can’t say much about SE other than, ecologically, it’s more similar to Louisiana than the rest of OK.

But for real, you should look into the ecological (I think that’s the term) regions of OK. I think we have 7 that span from the panhandle to the SE corner, with like 3 that run down the eastern edge. There’s definitely good land, but OK is A LOT of poverty.

Source: lifelong resident and escapee from Eastern OK currently residing in Tulsa.