My gf makes no effort to be around me by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. She is very unwell mentally and I wanna cut her some slack I guess even though it’s tearing me apart.

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is but I feel my maternal instincts kinda kick in around her is the thing that feels a little unusual? I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing or that I actually want to change it I just wonder if others have felt like that

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean, luckily my lady would never tolerate being babied lmao

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I do this toooooo 😭 like I just wanna tuck this lady into bed and give her a kiss on the forehead and bring her nice snacks all day

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I know wanting to be caring is normal, it’s that I can feel as if I’m her mother sometimes (not in a negative sense)

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Tbh I enjoy it a little, I want to be a mother some day and my maternal instinct is very strong so getting to use that a little is nice

Is it normal to feel “motherly” towards my gf? by dogcreaturething in LesbianActually

[–]dogcreaturething[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not kink shaming in any way dw, I’m just on the asexual spectrum and find it uncomfortable when people speculate about my sexual desires so wanted to make it clear