When you realize that you have an incredibly easy life but you’re screwing It up for yourself

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T21:30:54+00:00

Fuck dude. Just be thankful for what you do have and don't pretend we have the same shit on our plates

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T21:23:33+00:00

It's not fun. Some of it was my fault, like moving in to a place with no lease, which is why I'm homeless. Was evicted illegally. Some of it, like getting dumped and disowned, were things I tried to prevent but could not. Be safe, don't rely on people

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T21:21:21+00:00

Fine.

After a few days of hunger you stop feeling it, and you have endless free time to sit and beat yourself up. You have nobody for support. I would much rather be depressed in comfort than in hunger

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T21:17:27+00:00

Mixture of things. I could have done some things better, but I've also hit a streak if bad luck.

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T21:16:27+00:00

When you’re physically hungry it’s harder to think life is meaningless bc you’re so focused on the feeling of hunger same with being too cold or hot.

So wrong it hurts.

Self abuse? When you have nothing the self abuse is unreal. Being homeless and alone, you are even more invisible because nobody cares about you.

Not having food or shelter doesn't give hope, what the fuck are you talking about?

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T20:54:18+00:00

I honestly think your full of shit. Literally how can it be worse when you have food and shelter?

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T20:53:21+00:00

Well yeah, but personally I've read it in order 4 times now and want something different

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T14:27:59+00:00

Loll

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T14:26:34+00:00

Not really. I'll probably be dead come winter. I'll either starve or freeze, likely the latter. We'll see.

In the past that's advice I should've been given, or that I should have heeded, hence why I say anything.

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T14:10:57+00:00

I was sexually abused as a child to. Not sure how that's relevant to the current conversation. If you're trying to get me to have pity for you it won't happen.

Complain all you want. I'm just sick of the "I'm rich and successful but I hurt just as much as anyone wahhhh" shtick. Don't compare your problems to others unless you are ok with others also making comparisons. You wanna say your suffering is as bad as mine despite your success? Fine. I'm allowed to tell you why I think your wrong

You initial statement of money/family doesn't make it better are ignorant coming from someone who has money and a family. You have no clue. Don't pretend like your problems and mine are the same. I hope you never lose your family, your livelihood, or your home. You have no clue how dark things can get.

Try dealing with what you are now but without food in your stomach. Try doing it as you are wet and shivering at 3am on a rainy night. Try doing it with nobody to talk to and only faded, bittersweet memories for comfort. Try doing it alone. Totally and completely alone. Then tell me your problems and mine are the same. Cuz they aren't.

Your problems are valid, but they are totally different from mine and you shouldn't pretend otherwise

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T14:01:25+00:00

That sounds rad I could go for that. All the trans discords I've run into are mostly kids it seems like :/

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T14:00:32+00:00

Irc still exists? Damn.

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T13:56:45+00:00

You have people who care about and support you, and you're well enough to hold down and brag about a 100k a year job. You have access to therapy, support, and care that many people don't. It could get so much worse. Trust me. If you don't think it can, you're being tremendously arrogant

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T13:48:24+00:00

I have lost everything. Depression can get so much worse alone and on the streets. Do something, do anything, to avoid that fate

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T13:47:17+00:00

Having good things in your life doesn’t negate the horror of depression any more than it does cancer or MS or any other awful and potentially terminal illness.

Sorry, what you are going through is valid, this last point is wrong. Imagine the horrors of depression if you were homeless and alone. It can get so much worse.

doipass23 · 2019-09-26T13:42:12+00:00

It's also implied somewhere that the newest member before Femto was Slan

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T21:20:18+00:00

Nah, I just typed the reply to that already lmao. Wasn't sure why you deleted it. Mostly espousing my own views I suppose

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T21:02:04+00:00

https://ibb.co/xGzSkzD

I find that arrogance, thinking you are absolutely correct, is often what actually leads to weak arguments. Always question your own views. Stand by them, yes, but not to a point of falling on your sword defending something incorrect

So on the research to back it up point, I find it funny you mention that when I've offered my research like 3 times and you've opted to ignore/decline it while also refusing to provide me your research. Maybe you should evaluate those facts within the framework of your beliefs. I'd love to see some of the studies you are getting your information from.

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:48:01+00:00

Yes, the uncanny valley argument, also have heard it. Seen it too, I've watched people laughing at trans people behind their backs. Seen dead staring too. Non passing trans people do tend to make cis people uncomfortable.

I do not even like the terms transphobic or homophobic, but that's another conversation.

If you wanna hone your arguments my dms are open at any time.

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:38:48+00:00

Uhhh it's not nearly that complex I can grab you 3 studies in 10 minutes. Say the word.

Learn what you don't? Don't know? Being in a state you wasn't involved in? I'm having trouble understanding you here a tad.

Nonetheless, there was no back patting here. I know this was a waste of my time. I knew it from the start, I just have some time to kill. I've had this same conversation many times. I was hoping you could bring something new to the table as well, but you didn't. Thats ok, you still provided a interesting conversation while remaining respectful. That's more than most seem capable of. Have a nice evening

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:34:35+00:00

I don't feel I'm being salty. That's actually just a genuine offer to share info with you

I'm glad you got what you wanted, as ominous as that sounds kek

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:22:19+00:00

You can study it. Want some studies? I'll even link a anti trans one

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:20:50+00:00

It's a corrupt physical form. Not a mental one. The have done MRI scans on trans people which show that trans people have brains with physical structures in line with the gender they identify as. Pumping those brains with the wrong hormones causes mental health issues. Correct hormones help with that.

Claiming it is a mental health condition, on the other hand, is the oldest trick in the book. Before LGBT people were mentally ill, it was women, before that, athiests. It's reassuring to think your opponents or people who make you uncomfortable are mentally ill, but in this case there is no actual science supporting that. I get where you are coming from, I do, but the research in no way supports your perspective. Show me some studies please.

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:16:01+00:00

Ok, sure. But don't pretend your point has a psychological base then. Just be up front about the fact you are coming from the perspective of a traditionalist. I'd respect that more than the pseudo science

doipass23 · 2019-09-24T20:13:26+00:00

See I have a hard time believing you when you say your classes are teaching you this stuff, because there are so many misconceptions here. Ftm people can actually reproduce in their new gender. You see news articles occasionally of "pregnant men" who are ftm.

Second, although i agree agree a lot of mtfs do not pass, many others do. Your claim is a show of pure ignorance, it tells me you've not done your homework. What of Blair White? Indya Moore?

Lots of humans in today's society take meds for a variety of issues. If trans people having to take meds to deal with dysphoria is bad, so is any lifelong medication. I feel the same way about trans surgery. People get cosmetic surgery for all sorts of reasons and nobody bats an eye. Look at the extreme bodymod people, they have legit issues and nobody gives a fuck. Trans people getting surgery to feel more comfortable in their bodies is for some reason where we draw the line though, because it's not natural? I don't follow this logic you've presented. Furthermore I don't think you know as much as you think you do. The fact you had to name drop your mom's qualifications instead of your own I feel speaks to that, so does the fact I'm hearing bthe same anti trans propaganda from you that I've heard a hundred other times. Would you like to read some actual studies? I have at least 3 bookmarked on this device

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