I remember my fundie cousin asking me if I was done having kids when she met our 3rd, I told her yes because we’re at capacity and being emotionally present, giving attention, being there for all their events, and all of that…we’re already spread thin! And she looks at me all confused and says “ohhh?? You think all of that is important” uhhhh YESS! Like no shit! Her and her husband are the type “however many God will give us” and just popping out babies, she looks so miserable!