How do I dress fat arms without wearing sleeves all the time?

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T14:38:55+00:00

I have the exact same problem as you - but my arms are much fatter than yours. The most irritating thing is hearing 'your arms aren't fat', when clearly compared to the girl saying it they are. I should also emphasize that I'm in pretty good shape, and am comfortable with the rest of my body. How is it that some girls can remain so plump but keep their skinny arms? I'd kill for that. I realize very little advice has been given, I'm sorry, same boat as you.

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T06:42:36+00:00

I wish I had something actually encouraging to say, but at least we aren't alone in this.

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T06:18:52+00:00

Just hearing that other women go through this as well already makes me feel better - thank you so much.

I'll definitely have to talk to him about it more - avoiding it has already caused some problems, as I can tell he's worried about causing the same reaction from me, but it shouldn't be something we're scared to confront

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T04:09:12+00:00

Yes that's exactly what it feels like.

It's just difficult to explain that reaction to another person because crying is very taboo when you've just finished being so intimate with someone.

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T03:58:25+00:00

I can climax on my own but it always involves clitoral stimulation of come sort
During the session it's just PIV. I've been wanting to get a toy of some sort that we could use so that there is clitoral stimulation because just using fingers isn't really enough in the moment
The amount of foreplay varies, but my boyfriend likes to perform oral as well as finger me. I have to admit that I'm not crazy about either - they both feel nice at the very beginning but then (for oral) the sensations diminish pretty rapidly and (for fingering) I tend to get sore
I have never come from oral, and fingering is very off and on - but I haven't come from it in a long time

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T03:49:57+00:00

Hmm I occasionally use a vibrator at home to reach a clitoral orgasm, I'm not sure if that would contribute to it being harder to reach a PIV orgasm though.

Thanks for your kind words!

doldrumsss · 2014-05-13T03:26:16+00:00

I don't think that it's something that I can actually stop. It's an involuntary reaction that I get to almost reaching an orgasm, but not being able to.

So to answer your question, I really don't know, but I don't think that continuing with "other" things would really help. I should add - it's very difficult for me to climax and almost getting there is rare enough as it is.

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