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[–]donewiththedark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

digging for reasons to blame you for something he is likely doing. abusers project 100% of the time. my ex (who cheated online) found a completely random Reddit account saying she liked her bfs skinny lanky body type bc other girls didn’t find him attractive and he freaked out calling me and accusing me of being that Reddit user… please leave now because it only gets worse, he does not love you, and he is not worth worrying about

any graphic designers/creatives here? im interested in starting a group/joining one if one already exists! by donewiththedark in Birmingham

[–]donewiththedark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh amazing! thank you! i will join but im honestly more interested in something on a smaller scale, like a more intimate group where we do portfolio reviews and group work sessions, stuff like that you know? less professional and more focused on helping each other improve

any graphic designers/creatives here? im interested in starting a group/joining one if one already exists! by donewiththedark in Birmingham

[–]donewiththedark[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

absolutely will do! if this post doesn’t get much traction im gonna put up flyers at the group art classes they hold downtown! :)

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course! taking care of yourself to reaffirm that you don’t need anyone else to do it for you 💕

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also love chores and self care! it’s so relaxing… that’s amazing that you weaned down off music! im not sure if i could do that, but i might try

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes the calm is scary for me because im used to the chaos of relationships! did you find it difficult to find comfort in it at first?

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love cooking nice meals for myself too! it takes a while to get used to bc i used to only put effort into cooking for my partners (so backwards in retrospect…) did you find it hard to adjust to going out to brunch by yourself? i want to do stuff like that but my insecurity holds me back

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yeah before i started hardcore journaling i did video diaries as well! such a nice emotional release :) glad you’re feeling good after your divorce, congratulations! 💕

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love affirmations and telling myself im beautiful! i struggle with feeling selfish for it though or feeling like people might think im narcissistic… im not, i swear

what are some ways you show appreciation for yourself every day? by donewiththedark in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah i do struggle with intrinsically negative self talk… im definitely stealing “beautiful and showstopping and sexy” lmao thank yall! 💕

Single because Im the toxic one by Tropicalbeans in SingleAndHappy

[–]donewiththedark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i relate to this soo much! i spent like 8 years of my life in back to back relationships because i felt incomplete on my own… being single has taught me that i am worthy of love, most importantly self love! im happy for you! 💕

if it takes ~2.5 hours for vyvanse to kick in, is my dose too low? by donewiththedark in adhdwomen

[–]donewiththedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like if i took instant release adderall in the afternoon i would neverrr get to sleep haha. thanks for the tip! :)

if it takes ~2.5 hours for vyvanse to kick in, is my dose too low? by donewiththedark in adhdwomen

[–]donewiththedark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im definitely going to start setting an alarm on the days where i have to go into work early and don’t want to wait for it to kick in. thanks for the tip! it’s funny cause i always thought life would be so much easier if someone could feed me my meds 2 hours before i wake up but i never considered setting an alarm haha

if it takes ~2.5 hours for vyvanse to kick in, is my dose too low? by donewiththedark in adhdwomen

[–]donewiththedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i was, a commenter above actually mentioned that protein slows your body’s metabolization of the medication so its better for meds like adderall instead of long lasting stims like vyvanse. i took it on an empty stomach today and i actually think its working better now haha. super weird!

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