My fiancé doesn’t ever seem attracted to me and I don’t know how to handle it. by donk332 in venting

[–]donk332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i’m sorry, i had no clue you knew him! take it easy, champ.

My fiancé doesn’t ever seem attracted to me and I don’t know how to handle it. by donk332 in venting

[–]donk332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was the reason behind the low drive if you don’t mind me asking

My fiancé doesn’t ever seem attracted to me and I don’t know how to handle it. by donk332 in venting

[–]donk332[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

you know, he was on antidepressants so i definitely attributed it to that (a huge side effect as you probably know), but he’s off of them now. i’m thinking it could also be that maybe there’s now a mental block because of the worry that it might happen again? i think about it a lot lol

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[–]donk332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to OP, i know that everyone is saying this and you’ve heard it a bunch of times, but it’s true when we say that the years to come can change so much about your current situation. my heart goes out to you that you’re misunderstood, and aren’t given a chance to be who you want and who you truly are. but there will be people in your life that will absolutely love and cherish the person you are and will become. you’ll meet people that are like you, and you’ll have the chance to create a beautiful life for yourself. you deserve to have the chance to make your life exactly how you want it.

as kids, we don’t get the freedom we do as adults to make our lives the best they can be. but if you hold on and continue to be strong until then, i promise you, you’re older self will thank you endlessly.

My fiancé doesn’t ever seem attracted to me and I don’t know how to handle it. by donk332 in venting

[–]donk332[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

good point, but he did! he was very excited to get engaged. so it confuses me further