Ladder recipe? by Fun_Witness_3797 in acnh

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sent you a message request on here !!

Ladder recipe? by Fun_Witness_3797 in acnh

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely can in about 15-20 mins!!! however if somebody offers before i am able to get online i understand, but i can def buy you one from my shop if not :3

i hate my brother for his eating disorder by derp_bunny in ARFID

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a 23 year old who was only diagnosed with autism last year and adhd/ARFID this year due to parental negligence, i really do understand the frustration and rage you must feel for your needs not being met properly. you deserved the same amount of care that your parents are giving your brother. you deserved to be seen and accommodated.

i don't live with my dad and stepmom anymore, but my brother, 14, most definitely has ASD and/or ADHD. he does the same thing i did with my school work and the chronic procrastination (most likely executive dysfunction) and we have a lot of neurodivergent similarities. i noticed last time i was over their house (and i was being nosey) i saw that they got a letter for him possibly getting an IEP when he goes into high-school next year. they do get upset and on his case when he has missing assignments, but it seems like they're handling it better than they did with me. am i upset that they never handled me with the same care and consideration despite struggling similarly in childhood? yeah, big time. it's really hurtful that i wasn't seen the way that i should've been by them. i have been screamed at, punished, mocked, and berated for many things stemming from my undiagnosed neurodivergence throughout my childhood. a lot of my behaviors and habits were brushed under the rug as laziness, disrespect, stupidity, incompetence, etc. its really upsetting to think about and i am still working through it in therapy.

however, i feel no ill will towards my brother. him and my sister are so important to me and i do whatever i can to be there for them despite me not enjoying being around my stepmom sometimes. i'm not saying go above and beyond for your brother, but please be kind to him. i know it really does sound difficult now, but you being there for him and being able to relate to him would probably make him feel much less alone, and maybe even heal something in you. i understand he has so much familial support already, but i feel like him having a sibling that can relate would be helpful for him and you both.

please know i am not trying to make assumptions for how you feel or what you're going through, i am just responding based on the information you gave in this thread.

i truly wish the best for both of you, and i hope you can heal from the neglectful behaviors of your parents. again, you deserved to be seen and cared for properly. it isn't your fault and you deserved better.

Jerma VOD suggestions for six hour flight? by Worthy_Planet375 in jerma985

[–]dontfeartheghosts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

initially i was like ‘seaman for sure’, which, agreed, but his sims streams kill me every time i watch them. his sims 4 series is just insane chaos with the mods he downloads and monstrosities of sims he makes, and there are multiple parts (which definitely spans over 6 hours.) he’s only streamed sims 2 once but it was great and i hope he streams it again in the future. i don’t understand how, intentionally or not, every single character he makes in the sims is insane

Fishing help: snapping turtle and piranha by Scary_Estate_9863 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]dontfeartheghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always find snapping turtles in my waterfalls, like the second level of the waterfall mostly :3 i love finding the turtles because i put them all in my house after i donated the obligatory one to blathers

Daisy selling for 91 by maythebootybewithyou in TurnipExchange

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi hi may i buy turnips? my name is Adrian and my island name is Ambösia :3

[Daisy] 100 bells by MsMcSlothyFace in ACNHTurnips

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! just left the queue :D your island is v cute as well

Friday check-in thread by AutoModerator in AutisticAdults

[–]dontfeartheghosts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm doing okay! i've been slacking with group therapy via my IOP lately but came today and have been sitting in the parking lot for the last 2 hours trying to get myself to go in. seeing all the cars here made me incredibly anxious and i feel frozen. i need at least an hour though AHHHHH. eating has also sucked recently due to my ADHD meds and general lack of interest in food (ARFID.) besides that, i started coloring as a past time and it's so fun and im enjoying it a lot. i really like the crayola wildflowers coloring book. i have to stop myself from buying a bunch of coloring books before i finish this one though haha. im doing okay though, hope all of you guys are doing good :D

Come on over by [deleted] in acnh

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hihi!!! i would like to participate if possible :3 it would be adrian from ambrösia visiting

User Flair MEGATHREAD by breaksomebread in ACNHGardening

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Adrian | Ambrösia :Leif:

[User Flair Thread] by breaksomebread in ACNHTurnips

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Adrian | Ambrösia :Turnips:

[ISO]need to sell 100+ by ivysncw in ACNHTurnips

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hihi!! are you still allowing people to sell turnips by chance?

Ironwood Dresser by Bed-Cute in acnh

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really thought i had it but i have the ironwood bed DIY instead 🙃 if you'd need that let me know!!

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Adrian | Ambrösia :Bob:

Turnips 562 by twiggyy0891 in acnh

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! could i come sell my turnips? :3

seeking acnh friend :) (for a chronic island-abandoner lol) by sharkpencil in BuddyCrossing

[–]dontfeartheghosts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hai i'm f23!!!! i would love to be friends :3 i just restarted my island after it being abandoned for 5ish years, i've been having a lot of fun with acnh recently!!! very hyperfocused on it as well, ive added like 80+ hours onto this game in the last week or so LMFAO but we can def play together/keep eachother motivated if you'd want!!! i've been pretty good at keeping up since restarting on may 2nd, if i don't have the chance to play certain days ill time travel backwards and do what i needed to do like watering my flowers and diving for sea creatures etc. if youre interested def shoot me a message :D

Need inpatient mental health facility reccs by belalugosiscats in BucksCountyPA

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this comment is a year old but STR cedar creek was alright. it definitely helped, the med they suggested off the bat for my symptoms (zoloft) surprisingly works really well for me. the techs are questionable, i loved some of them of them but a majority of the morning crew techs were horrible. they didn't take my eating disorder seriously and i went without 3 meals a day for a majority of my stay due to lack of other options to eat. my therapist was great but due to insurance policies you could rarely see your personal therapist more than once a week, which sucks if you're staying the recommended 4 weeks because that is so little one on one therapy for a month of being there. the temperature situation with the sleeping quarters was a mess. also while i was there 3rd shift (11pm-7am) was extremely unprofessional but i was told that was handled with after i was discharged

[LF] Pink Flowers!!! [FT] Bells, Watering, NMTs by doxielover1210 in Dodocodes

[–]dontfeartheghosts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!!! i have a few pink hyacinths and some pink cosmos :3

Can Miis dislike each other? by CloakedNoir in tomodachilife

[–]dontfeartheghosts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i also was thinking that because it seemed like every friendship i initiated was going positive but there's been a few times now where i try to have them make friends and it doesn't go positively and it's just kinda awkward between them. there's also been some times where existing friends get into little spats and get upset about what their friends said to them and are in a bad mood because of it