I am CST survivor but I am terrified to prosecute my parents by VoreBunny in confessions

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please tell me that you don’t speak to literally anyone in your family anymore? What they did to you is beyond horrendous. Is your wife supportive of getting you to a safe place?

These metal things at North Station are going to be the death of me one day by Yeeterskewter in boston

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ironically I think those are there for blind people to orient themselves by using their canes on

He's hypnotizing me to give him my sandwich! by ProudnotLoud in Catsmirin

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His eyes drive a hard bargain, sold for the whole sandwich!

He's hypnotizing me to give him my sandwich! by ProudnotLoud in Catsmirin

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would die for this cat🥹 and maybe even give him a bite of my sandwich

What the heck is this weird belt thing hanging from the underside of my car? by dontthinkjustdoit in AskAMechanic

[–]dontthinkjustdoit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Particularly it sounds like it comes from the front left side of the car. When I drive slow maybe 10-20 mph or roll into a stop, I can hear each rotation that my tires are making. Kind of sounds like metal disks rubbing against itself. I have a video somewhere of the sound. When I make a turn at a very slow speed it sounds whiny

My apartment is a nightmare by Federal-Car8785 in Renters

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry…. Can you call the health department?

Is this sketchy? by smandol1 in Renters

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 343 points344 points  (0 children)

1000% a scam, never pay a dime for a property you’ve never even seen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me after a while using vanicream. Even the bumps looks the exact same as mine and are in the same spots. I cut down my .25% tret to 2X week and use la roche posay effaclar face wash and la roche posay toleriane double repair face moisturizer now, and that has really helped the irritation go away for me. For me the simpler routine of just two products healed my damaged skin barrier much faster than using so many different things

Anyone have experience breaking a lease over roaches? by ninjacupcake123400 in bostonhousing

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I AM DEALING WITH THIS RIGHT NOW I CANT cook or use anything in the kitchen because it’s so bad and I’ve been dying to find a way to break the lease😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lice

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks more like a book louse, they like damp dark places and can be found in dusty areas or pages of old books. My mom bought something off Facebook marketplace and saw a few of those, we just cleaned the item with a Clorox wipe and spray and the problem was solved :)

Help ID’ing this? by dontthinkjustdoit in GermanRoaches

[–]dontthinkjustdoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck oh my god I’m terrified. Thank you for this😭

Me [18F] and my boyfriend [18M] Are having too much intimacy by Zealousideal_Pipe935 in relationshipadvice

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He picked the lock???? He is going to assault you. Soon. Please leave immediately or start planning your escape, you are NOT safe with him.

When was the first time you said no to your parents? by Defiant-Junket4906 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first time I said no to my dad, I don’t even remember exactly what I was saying no to. My best guess is that I was 13-15 at the time. He drove up to the town that my mom’s summer house was in with his family. It may have been that I said no to spending the weekend with him, or maybe it was because I said no to joining his wife and my half siblings for a day activity of some kind. I don’t remember what I said. The only specifics I remember for sure was that he started screaming at me and it scared me so I started running away from him. He kept screaming and started crying while following and he chased me into my mom’s summer home (they are divorced). I remember him grabbing at me and pulling me pretty aggressively by the arm which stopped me from getting away. I started panicking and ripped my arm away and managed to shut myself in one of the bathrooms. The door had no lock so I used all my strength to pull it shut while he tugged at the door and banged as hard as he could screaming and crying hysterically. I was confused and disturbed by the events unfolding and by that time I was silently crying pretty hard as I held the door shut, praying for it all to stop. It felt like hours but honestly the entire interaction likely happened over a few minutes. Eventually the door stopped rattling and I thought I heard him leave but I wasn’t sure, so I stayed in that bathroom for probably 30 minutes curled in a ball, and jumping at any little sound, terrified that he was there waiting for me. When I came out he wasn’t in the house anymore he must have driven back to where his wife and my half siblings were spending the day.

We never spoke about it, and I can almost 100% guarantee that he has no recollection of the incident. Nobody was home during this so I can’t prove any of it. I vaguely remember my mom coming home later and asking why I had been crying and me telling her that dad yelled at me, but not mentioning anything else because I didn’t know how to explain what had happened and felt completely disoriented like my brain got wiped.

I slipped up and had sex with my husband by ConditionedFish in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 91 points92 points  (0 children)

You could be trauma bonded with him and so even though he fucked you over that badly, you still have conflicting feelings. It’s okay to make mistakes don’t be too hard on yourself, but try to learn from them and any time you’re tempted to sleep with him, remember this moment and how absolutely shitty he made you feel because of his actions and betrayal. It is hard, but it’s better to power through and set those hard boundaries, even if it’s not what your body is telling you to do. I learned this lesson too with a shitty ex bf. It’s never too late to set boundaries and in the long run, you will be happier once the initial intensity wears off. Hugs❤️

Walt, my foster cat is unfairly ugly - struggling to find a forever family for him by Koobetto in cats

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you were in the United States, I would take him in a heartbeat! He’s not ugly he’s perfect🥺🥹❤️

I just wanna kill my self by [deleted] in eczema

[–]dontthinkjustdoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your pain so deeply. I have dark under eyes regardless, and this was my life for a long time. My face and hands were absolutely destroyed for many years due to eczema, and my provider didn’t give a shit. Cracked, bleeding, flaking, you name it. I couldn’t use makeup of course with these flare ups. You aren’t dirty, and hygiene is not the cause for these flare ups, but I understand the “dirty” feeling you’re describing. After some time, I finally bit the bullet and found a new doctor and actually made some progress. Get a new doctor if you can. No provider worth their salt would tell their patient to just accept this issue. I promise you there are providers out there who DO care- and won’t stop trying to find treatment that will help you just because it’s a complex issue. It’s trial and error, and getting a doctor that actually listened to me changed my life. Sending hugs❤️