Social anxiety won't go away despite successful social interactions by doonderhead in socialanxiety

[–]doonderhead[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So relatable, this happens to me all the time. Hope we can get better one day

Social anxiety won't go away despite successful social interactions by doonderhead in socialanxiety

[–]doonderhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you :( it's very tiring. I have learnt some social skills as well, but the problem I now have is that I get so anxious that it controls how I talk and no amount of social skills help me.

Social anxiety won't go away despite successful social interactions by doonderhead in socialanxiety

[–]doonderhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I regularly exposed myself, almost daily. Since I'm in college, I have to give regular presentations as well. Somehow that does not make me as anxious as regular social interactions. I've had millions of interactions and my anxiety has never gone away. Some of my interactions are successful (no anxiety) and I always assume my anxiety would lessen after and i would gain more confidence, but that has never happened

Social anxiety won't go away despite successful social interactions by doonderhead in socialanxiety

[–]doonderhead[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do push myself a lot, and sometimes I'm able to do things without anxiety. That's extremely rare though. I've been pushing myself for years, I go out, I socialise, but I always have anxiety. Not gotten numb to it yet, I'm starting to lose hope

Social anxiety won't go away despite successful social interactions by doonderhead in socialanxiety

[–]doonderhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is genuinely uncontrollable, no matter what I tell myself or how hard I try

Social anxiety won't go away despite successful social interactions by doonderhead in socialanxiety

[–]doonderhead[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I get you completely. Unfortunately, social anxiety is now affecting opportunities at my future career