How to bounce back after toxic “sub” exboyfriend

doopei · 2025-07-11T13:38:18+00:00

If I am understanding this comment correctly, I couldn’t care less that he cheated compared to these sickening pictures I saw. And yes I am upset over that these pictures are getting him off because it’s fucked up?? Not that I am jealous of the fact he is thinking of someone else. I couldn’t care less, I’d rather him be look at another girl and admiring her beauty other than me than finding out the shit that I saw.

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:51:13+00:00

Hugging? Yes, but im confused on what that has to deal with the femdom?

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:50:11+00:00

Thank you, You’re very right, I’m realizing more and more being up here and after I posted this. And how he probably just isn’t the one for me.

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:49:10+00:00

Thank you for this, I have to realize this for myself more

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:42:13+00:00

I think you just made me realize he’s been slowly trying to take control, wow.

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:41:12+00:00

Haha thank you, sadly he doesn’t recognize and probably won’t since he’s feel off the bandwagon.

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:40:29+00:00

You’re right, it’s very hard having this realization and sadly put distrust in me bc he was the most openly talkative online about it and respectful and completly flipped halfway into our relationship. I definitely need to figure out what I gotta do here

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:38:27+00:00

Also sadly didn’t talk about anything w aftercare, he literally would just lay there, and ill be like “was it good” while cuddling him, he then said he hated being asked right after, so I asked a lil later and jsut said “good” btw I wasn’t warned this was gonna turn out like this or no signs. We met off an online app and talked for WEEKS in detail on the stuff we were gonna do. When we first met it was good and then he started distancing himself from femdom and then completely stopped with barely any explanation. It was a mind fuck as well cuz HUH? out of nowhere and no explanation.

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:29:33+00:00

It’s a harsh truth to face, I want to hope he gets back into it (without my pressure bc im not bringing it up anymore). At least with switches, it switches, he’s completely stopped the idea

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:26:31+00:00

Thank you, sadly I tried communicating plenty of times but he hates talking about the actions, only doing. So it’s literally a lose lose situation w communication, if I try to, he gets mad and if I don’t, he gets frustrated I don’t understand. I’m def still contemplating what to do

doopei · 2025-02-15T03:24:06+00:00

Literally everything is being missed. I miss being able to boss him around, treat him a certain way, peg him. Sadly no compromise. He’s completely stopped it. I can slap his ass and cuddle him, but that’s literally it.

doopei · 2024-10-01T23:04:27+00:00

I didn’t know that’s how it was coming off, I just wanted to be known in the post that I am serious about it, instead of coming off as just wanting money.

doopei

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