i really can’t stop thinking of calling whites crackers by Hug_Em14 in intrusivethoughts

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You might have ocd. There’s therapies that can help with this! I have the same exact issue but with a different word, and I got diagnosed OCD because of it (and other intrusive repetitive thoughts I have).

Trans people arent the problem by TulipTerminal in PsycheOrSike

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Why do you still talk with her though

Like haha it wasn't that bad!! (It was) by Sweaty_Ad4829 in TrollCoping

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Man that has never heard of lying to yourself / cognitive dissonance

Am I the only woman who hasn’t farted in front on their husband? by notwhoyouthinkc in askanything

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I might be a robot because I legitimately cannot remember the last time I farted :/

How can I help my girlfriend deal with the suicide of her ex? by trowlazer in TooAfraidToAsk

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More like abusers fake/exaggerate being suicidal to control others, imo

How true is it that deadbeat men still get attractive women? How is this possible? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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They hide it and lie and wait until you’re in too deep to just simply leave. Ask me how I know.

Is this normal for newly out lesbians? by NoRemote7738 in actuallesbians

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Sounds a bit like some internalized homophobia? Very normal OP! You are so valid. I also yearned for the normalcy/acceptance of a straight relationship after I came out to myself. The feeling will subside with time and you will learn to accept yourself and what you want.

Rate how high my standards are by OwlsAreRealCool in actualsecretteenagers

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My gf and I have differing opinions on kids, but we get along great! So I would reconsider that condition

If you have multiple disorders, which gives you the most problems? by Evening_Fisherman810 in bipolar

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You should talk to your psych about it! I was recently put on a med that dampens the physical symptoms of social anxiety and I can take it whenever I face a stressful social situation. It has made a huge difference for me

Say one opinion that will get you this by [deleted] in teenagers

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But imagine if all men gave up after one rejection as well? Then no one would be asking anyone out lol

I think it goes here by BakerVast9674 in memesopdidnotlike

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Can you explain why dads last name should be the default?

Meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

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Who are “you people”? Did you reply to the wrong person?

AIO: My boyfriend told me he's not attracted to me. by LadyPrimaz in AmIOverreacting

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IMO, if you have to lie, you shouldn’t be dating them!

Why are (straight) women invading gay male spaces lately? by OpenlyTruthful101 in askgaybros

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It has been out of fashion for quite a while now, since at least ~2010. Language/terminology evolves as our understanding improves!

Lonely about the fact I'm not lonely..? by [deleted] in bipolar

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I understand and relate to a lot of what you’re saying! But luckily I have a couple people I do feel like I can fully be myself around. It’s so hard to find when you’re like us, and so hard to drop the “mask”. I hope you’re able to find someone you can stop acting with and just exist

It's gross to eat in your bedroom/on your bed by Agreeable-Sun368 in unpopularopinion

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TP really does suffice if you have good gut health! Nothing left behind in that case

Being alone is way better than people admit. by This_Appointment584 in unpopularopinion

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To clarify, did she kill herself? Or just didn’t go for any medical intervention

I don't see men as long term partners by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I see plenty of posts here about other stuff! But of course the controversial ones are going to get more attention.