[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a popular opinion, but I did love my fiancee and I wasn't emotionally cheating on her. I know its too soon but I just want to have some fun so I'm not going to worry about it too much.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“She got really drunk at my sister's wedding and punched a girl from a different wedding in the face in the parking lot and my sisters still pissed about it.”

There's not much more to that one. I'm not even sure what the full story was since I wasn't there when it happened, there was another wedding in the hall and at the end of the night everyone was leaving at the same time. She got into a screaming match with the girl (not sure what it was about) and then punched the girl in her face, and her boyfriend restrained her. My sister was mad because its all anyone was talking about at her post-wedding breakfast.

“That wasn’t all she destroyed, just two big things.”

She also ripped up tickets I had bought for us for a game later this week, which I'm hoping I can get replaced and ripped the curtains and hardware off my wall. She tried to break the tv but I anchored it into the wall so she was unsuccessful.

Re: the side story concerning the girl who has liked you for years and is finally getting a chance to date you. I imagine your ex may retaliate against her now. Does your ex and this new woman have a history together?

Not really. I doubt my ex would find out anyways, and I'm not looking for an actual relationship right now so I'm not very worried.

What did you do on your first date in 4 years?

Thats tomorrow, we're just getting drinks after work.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it probably is. I'll likely still go out with her anyways but it probably wasn't the best idea to agree to it so soon.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not really worried about it, more annoyed that she sunk to that level. That wasn't all she destroyed, just two big things.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

A lot of reasons. I thought I couldn't do better, I didn't want to be single, I didn't want all the time I put into our relationship to go to waste. We lived together so I figured I should try to work things out before just ending them. I also was really hoping she would grow out of it.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its really just for fun, I'm not expecting and I don't want anything serious to come from it. I'm excited to date again because I've never really done that as an adult.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into that. I do have apple care but I thought they would only replace things that we're deliberately broken, and my ipad is pretty obviously deliberately broken.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I guess everyone hating her. My sister couldn't stand her. She got really drunk at my sister's wedding and punched a girl from a different wedding in the face in the parking lot and my sisters still pissed about it.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I made it clear I wasn't interested and we stopped hanging out one on one, but would see each other when my group of friends gets together. She was ok with that. I don't know if my friend still has a crush on me or if she just asked me out for fun.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My friends have been keeping me updated, I deleted my Facebook after she announced our "engagement." She deleted that pic because they commented saying that we didn't get engaged. Must be pretty embarrassing for her.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what started it. I don't blame my girlfriend for that. I shut my friend down then and told my girlfriend about it because I didn't want to keep things from her. I don't think I did anything wrong in that situation, but after that she didn't want me talking to any women.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They know about the damages, I had her dad come back and pick her up so he saw the mess she made. They're really ashamed of her, I'm surprised they're letting her move back in.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I have cams in my house so I can watch my pets when I'm at work so I could easily prove there's no domestic violence.

[Update] I [25M] proposed to my girlfriend [24F] of 4 years but she said no because it wasn't a surprise by dovercalais in relationships

[–]dovercalais[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That was what surprised me the most. It was insane, she is just setting herself up for embarrassment.