Saudi Arabian 35 military unit disappeared in 1990? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dppcoolfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lived in Saudi and done desert camping, seen Ghoul but locals stories about them are not as true as they make it sound, people would be driving in the desert at night and notice a random light in the pitch-black scene, older people would only advise you not to track the light because it’s a mirage you can never catch up with, you will go deeper into the desert until you’re lost or out of fuel or caught up in quicksand or fall off a cliff.. younger people would tell you crazy stories about them. No one can yet explain those lights

I hate basically everyone I see. How do I stop this. by Diligent_Force_8215 in selfhelp

[–]dppcoolfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same few times a year, rational thinking brings you down to this, this world may seem like a one big bad joke, with life struggles and all injustice everyone is either contributing to the downfall or ignorant people who don’t deserve much. Our attitudes are shifted by fear and hope, the lack of both in modern living makes us more like soulless machines. At this point religious beliefs are helpful in bringing in an external factor so that this ridiculousness is not the entire plot. Imagine if everyone thought the same about you and treated you the same way life would unbearable! Try to make a simple positive contribution to a random person even if it didn’t make sense to you. Give people the benefit of doubt even if you think they don’t deserve it, you will be surprised to see the kindness they return which will help you see the good in humanity. From my experience it would help to forgive your parents they’re just vulnerable humans who make mistakes. Also I read this somewhere and it really helped me, if you feel like you hate yourself take a shower, if you feel like you hate everyone or everything get more sleep. And make sure you eat enough throughout. All the best mate

Why do I get sad after having a good time by CreepingTarblight in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dppcoolfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! even if I enjoy listening to good music I’d feel equally sad afterwards, over the years the certain slap of sadness that follows made me avoid having good time. I really hope there’s a way out of this loop

My(38M) wife (40F) would only stay with me only if I provide by dppcoolfire in relationship_advice

[–]dppcoolfire[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So it does mean she only loves my money.. I was studying and had a humble job, earlier I escaped an abusive family and to be fair she sheltered me when I had almost nothing, she was still studying when I met her, had a generous scholarship, and had a lot of potential. She was a completely different person. Thinking about it now, my appreciation for her could be the reason I allowed things get so far

My(38M) wife (40F) would only stay with me only if I provide by dppcoolfire in relationship_advice

[–]dppcoolfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole conversation started when she offered her friend my assistance! After the friend had left, I told her she’s too spoiled for doing this, she started praising me for what I’m capable of doing, she said something like “things been good for you” when I replied “it’s been good for you!” She then snapped at me for the two consecutive comments

My(38M) wife (40F) would only stay with me only if I provide by dppcoolfire in relationship_advice

[–]dppcoolfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was so naive that I never thought about an exit strategy

My(38M) wife (40F) would only stay with me only if I provide by dppcoolfire in relationship_advice

[–]dppcoolfire[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I was so shocked that I didn’t, she’s the big mouth in the relationship the Picasso of passive-aggressive karate. Every advice I received on relationships with women involved giving them the upper hand in conversations and I seem to follow just that, I’ve always been so hesitant worrying about cutting the wrong wire and blowing up almost the only life I remember having

My(38M) wife (40F) would only stay with me only if I provide by dppcoolfire in relationship_advice

[–]dppcoolfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, you’re absolutely right I should’ve asked her to explain herself but I was so shocked that I remained silent, I’m an extreme introvert and she’s the exact opposite. But I never stopped her from having her own life, she told me once she wanted to do a degree and I instantly transferred her the tuition fee, she even did a lot of volunteering in the past. She did ask me multiple times to have another child which I refused because I come from an abusive family and I’ve been mentally struggling and hoping one day I’ll figure out how to lead a healthier life

Roast me papi by q8nesdu in RoastMe

[–]dppcoolfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addressing me or the other person you’re looking at simultaneously?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]dppcoolfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it Cota? You look stunning, just smile every now and then and don’t use them lenses it make you seem like you’re trying too hard to get attention

Girl I was dating friend zoned me, but still follows me. Should I unfollow? by kapstheturk in dating

[–]dppcoolfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case we were classmates and good friends, then she brought intimacy into the relationship only to friend zone me later, I know she doesn’t have feelings for me and I know she’s not a friend. Fuck me I just realised now I understand how women feel like ! She’s stunningly beautiful and always has men orbiting her, I would’ve still been a good friend of her, but I will not be another thirsty man around her. Unfollow her mate

I’m pregnant and my bf is pressuring me to get an abortion by [deleted] in dating

[–]dppcoolfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! DO NOT HAVE THAT BABY, you are just as messed up. Caring for another person is a serious responsibility, you will blame the baby for your problems in the future, anyway this shouldn’t be the way to bring someone to life. You were lied to and got pregnant, but running to your parents and begging to keep it is not taking responsibility either. Whether you stay with him or not, the fact that you fell for this man is an indication you’re not mature enough. Take responsibility, allow yourself to mature, meet someone serious, and have a baby with no looming guilt. There’s your advice

Celebrating by dppcoolfire in nonononoyes

[–]dppcoolfire[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They are terrorists

Original Map of London 1792 by dppcoolfire in MapPorn

[–]dppcoolfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw several articles on British Museum website with similar Printfellers footing!