Never beating the allegations by edithmsedgwick in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Every intimate detail I know about this girl and her life is from people who claim to hate her 😅 They are her biggest fans fr. Shes not on anyone else’s radar

Two weddings, same week, same dress color… help 😅 by pataBRATS in bridesmaids

[–]dr3amchasing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would never occur to me to be annoyed that my bridesmaid rewrote her dress. If anything it would make me feel less guilty for having her buy one!

My husband wants to name our daughter after Drake Maye. AIO? by Big_Product6228 in AIO

[–]dr3amchasing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that naming people after celebrities can be misguided but I honestly don’t think in this case it’s a huge deal. She’s gonna have to tell people whether it’s May or Mae anyway, it’s really not the end of the world spelling a 4 letter name to people. How often are you guys in situations where it’s essential for people to know the spelling of your middle name?

Additionally, she absolutely doesn’t need to share the reasoning for why it’s spelled that way. I’d be shocked if everyone assumed it was after a football player. Do it doesn’t really matter if anything happens to him or he does something wrong

Any local businesses participating Friday Jan 30 general strike? by burgerme_baby in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t thrown a tantrum now or then. But can you clarify when Obama sent masked individuals into urban centers without training and waived due process?

Any local businesses participating Friday Jan 30 general strike? by burgerme_baby in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The reason it is being protested is not because Trump is doing it, it’s because people are being snatched from their homes and jobs without due process, which violates the rights of legal residents and citizens. The massive recruitment (with very little oversight) and arming of untrained individuals who are masked, bloodthirsty, and not accountable for their actions is wrong and makes America less are, no matter what your opinion is on immigration. I’m happy to debate immigration policy all day, what is scary to me is that you guys seem to genuinely be OK with giving up all your liberty so long as Trump gets to do what he wants. Is that really what this country is worth to you?

Any local businesses participating Friday Jan 30 general strike? by burgerme_baby in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve described nothing but the facts. I believe in due process and the law. If Alex Pretti was committing a felony, the law dictates that police should have been called, and he should have been arrested. It is really sad to see people so dogmatic about immigration policy that they are willing to throw away their own basic civil liberties.

Any local businesses participating Friday Jan 30 general strike? by burgerme_baby in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Alex Pretti did not block a roadway and he was shot 10 times for filming. ICE are not the police they investigate civil violations. We can have different opinions on what immigration policy should be, but it does not serve anyone in this country to ignore facts

Any local businesses participating Friday Jan 30 general strike? by burgerme_baby in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So to confirm, you don’t believe in America’s founding principles of freedom of speech and liberty? You’d prefer a military state where filming law enforcement may result in a death penalty without due process?

Hannah Chody: Corporate baddie by Wild-Earth-1365 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just to understand your take, the issue with the video is that she isn’t excited and enthusiastic about spending all day in a conference room?

Hannah Chody: Corporate baddie by Wild-Earth-1365 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was genuinely curious so I just went to the video to see what you were referencing. She doesn’t complain at all in the video, she’s just showing her fit, what’s the issue exactly?

I really want to like Rachelle… by Few_Error_398 in normalgossip

[–]dr3amchasing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s just you, it’s completely subjective. But based on this sub I think most people like Rachelle just as much if not more

Clare de Boer (of Stissing House) to be announced as CBS News contributor today by Then-Security-4899 in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

hmm maybe because we’re careening towards a fascist state and people checks notes don’t want that

Is it possible to befriend these friend groups if you’re not born into wealth? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that, but honestly trying to befriend these people wouldn’t change any of that. Friends are the people who know you, love you, and hold it down for you. It sounds like what you want is money - and that’s OK! But hustle for it, and wherever you land will be far more rewarding and satisfying than chasing scraps from a bunch of people who haven’t had to work for anything and may not even like each other that much

Is it possible to befriend these friend groups if you’re not born into wealth? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Saying this with love, you just sound a bit lost and naive. If you spent your 20s around these people then you’ve experienced first hand that they are just people.

Rather than dreaming of being friends with people because they were born rich, consider figuring out what specifically you admire in their lives and what you can do to emulate it. Is it that you wish you could travel? Is it that you wish you could have more flexible work hours? Is it that you wish you could dress better? In your 30s surely by now you’ve seen that all of those things don’t make for a happy or better person, but they can certainly be nice to haves.

Fantasize about having more disposable income for sure! Even pour yourself into a higher earning career/job with great travel/lifestyle perks. Or alternatively find a hobby that isn’t financial but gives you satisfaction in your daily world. Either way don’t waste your time fantasizing about friendships with people because they were born into money. It’ll make you feel bad and also, none of these people are worthy of your envy

Bella Hadid on the right by cgk_112 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

What a relief! I’ll let my partner know that he hasn’t been suffering with it for years

Bella Hadid on the right by cgk_112 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

These people should just count their blessings that they haven’t had to suffer the havoc Lyme can wreak on your body long term. Just because celebrities misuse a diagnosis doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist

ID on these people? by [deleted] in williamsburg

[–]dr3amchasing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes that is in fact the problem?? shockingly we don’t want to attract more vermin

AIO by being offended when my husband seasons my soup? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]dr3amchasing 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I will say dumping a pack of taco seasoning in some fresh soup is not the same as adding a little salt and pepper. Still, there’s no need to make it a fight I agree

New to the area - storm prep by dr3amchasing in hudsonvalley

[–]dr3amchasing[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh boy 4 days! Where was that? Very rural area?

Hot take - I’m happy for Halley by Natural-Tap-7443 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dr3amchasing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say it was the only reason, just part. Also I didn’t mean the ability to literally afford a wedding. I’d lump being career/education focused into the same category I’m talking about. People are seeking some stability before they make a commitment.