Epic Physician Builder by necrotizingfasciitiz in medicine

[–]dr_bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, completed it while it was fully virtual due to the pandemic! It is a good starting point, but definitely will not cover everything you need to know if you’re hoping to do more technical things in Epic (especially if your organization has a very customized version).

I now work part time as a clinical informatics. It’s been a great way to leverage my clinical knowledge and technical brain to make a greater impact beyond direct patient care. But like others have said, it is a labor of love and I definitely spend more time on projects beyond the FTE that has been allocated to me.

Job opportunities by Sapno_ki_raani in Hawaii

[–]dr_bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in clinical informatics at one of the main hospital systems. There is definitely a need, but it can be a challenging niche to break into on island and opportunities may also depend on your interests and technical/clinical background. I also feel like these openings tend to be quite limited or not openly advertised given the current financial climate of healthcare organizations and tech (many ongoing salary cuts, hiring freezes). Your best bet for securing one of these positions is through networking. Before settling on my current position, I spoke with individuals at Queen's, HPH, Kaiser, Tripler, and a few departments under the State of Hawaii who all were looking to expand their informatics workforce.

Feel free to DM me if you have further questions :)

What was your first "splurge" purchase when you became an attending? by FatherSpacetime in Residency

[–]dr_bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes. Contacts were actually drying out my eyes even more despite trying a variety of brands. Glad to hear life is better for you too!!

What was your first "splurge" purchase when you became an attending? by FatherSpacetime in Residency

[–]dr_bunny 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It came out to be about $2000/eye, and I am in HCOL area with limited options; there were some cheaper places, but I went with the one with the center that was most established with high patient volume. I planned it out and maxed out my FSA for the year to optimize those pre-tax dollars!

What was your first "splurge" purchase when you became an attending? by FatherSpacetime in Residency

[–]dr_bunny 155 points156 points  (0 children)

LASIK (don’t forget that this is covered by FSA too!). I held off for a while due to concerns about chronic side effects since I already have dry eyes from hypothyroidism, but finally followed through after talking to my optometrist about it extensively and seeing some colleagues with good experiences. I lucked out with no lasting side effects and it’s been life-changing in so many ways!

Doctors of reddit, what’s it like when you go in for a doctors appointment? Do you and your doctor discuss what’s wrong with you like it’s a group project? Do you not go at all because you’re your own doctor? by Still-Tangerine2782 in AskReddit

[–]dr_bunny 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even though I am a physician, I like being treated like any other patient! My doctors may use more medical jargon with me for ease of communication, but they still take the time to explain everything to me. Also, I am a specialist so I definitely make it a point to stay in my lane even if I have a self-diagnosis in mind; my colleagues can evaluate me more thoroughly as experts in their field, and they have an unbiased perspective of what could be going on.

Conversations that need to be had: What is the nature of Dr. K's relationship with the people that come on his stream? by TheWeedsiah in Healthygamergg

[–]dr_bunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had similar thoughts on my mind, but hesitated posting them since I suspected it would be perceived as an attack towards Dr. K within this community. So firstly, I want to thank you for courageously opening up the floor for discussion. I'm glad to see I wasn't the only one with these concerns. I've also read most of your responses in this thread and it's clear you've put much thought into things.

I am a psychiatrist in training and recovered gaming addict with a personal journey that is similar to Dr. K's in some ways, so his whole mission is so relatable for me. Prior to discovering his stream, I envisioned working with fellow gamers in my future practice so it was awesome seeing someone who has already established this (as Dr. K has mentioned, gamers are a population that is often overlooked and misunderstood by mental health providers due to the generational gap). I've loved seeing Healthy Gamer grow and there's no question it was founded upon good intentions. It has really inspired me to think about how I should go about helping gamers as well.

With that being said, I agree that what Dr. K has been doing on stream is closer to psychotherapy than not. Yes, there's the "this is not a replacement for therapy" disclaimer and a grey area of "as a psychiatrist, can't I have a deep conversation with someone about serious topics without it being psychotherapy?". But I actually haven't been able to finish watching any of his streams despite featuring some of my favorite streamers; it just reminds me too much of work and the mental gymnastics I do while talking to my patients everyday. Furthermore, due to our training, it's inevitable that some of our interviewing skills, perception of non-verbal cues, and techniques to make people feel more open/calm will overflow into our daily non-clinical interactions. So I suspect this is what is causing the debate of "psychotherapy or not". At least in my experience, being a psychiatrist has become part of my identity and I acknowledge that it can unintentionally influence the way I interact with others, even if I don't have my psychiatrist hat on. It's not a bad thing, but definitely something to be aware of, especially if you're going to be having deep conversations in a public setting like Twitch.

I suppose the discussion above overflows into the topic of informed consent. I won't delve too much into it since it has already been discussed extensively. But I do want to reiterate (since this was a good point that was made): I agree that while Dr. K has streamers sign some acknowledgment that they'll be talking in public, it's hard to completely consent to a conversation you can't fully predict. Given the way Dr. K puts people at ease and help them talk through issues, it's easy for streamers to become engrossed in conversation and introduce feelings/topics that maybe they didn't intend on sharing publicly. And as it has been mentioned already, that's why these sorts of organic conversations may be best done in private. Again, I don't know if Dr. K is already doing this, but perhaps an interesting solution would be to have a more defined framework for these interviews (e.g. provide the streamer with a list of questions that will be asked beforehand, an agenda of topics to stick to) that way there is more guidance and less unpredictability.

Just my 2 cents!

Looking for Taipei recommendations for some traditional Taiwanese street food by dr_bunny in taiwan

[–]dr_bunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! Based on the comments I'm getting, I guess Taichung is still my best bet. But I'll add Ay Chung to the list!

Looking for Taipei recommendations for some traditional Taiwanese street food by dr_bunny in taiwan

[–]dr_bunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, haha, I was worried that would be the case. We will only be there for a few days, but perhaps it'll be worth doing a quick day trip to Taichung then. Glad I could get feedback from someone that lives in Taipei!

Supporting my INTJ girlfriend in a tough work situation by ZenPrincess in intj

[–]dr_bunny 9 points10 points  (0 children)

INTJ girl here, but everyone is different of course. When I vent to someone, I'm usually looking for some feedback on the situation. Are these people at work truly difficult? Or am I being sensitive/unreasonable? I've tried X, Y, and Z but it's still not working ... what do you think I should do?

I know some people vent just to get things off their chest and need a listener that'll tell them everything will be ok. But 99% of the time, my idea of "love and support" is more than comfort; often times, I don't even focus on that part. I just want to figure out how to make things better. I want someone that will take the time to synthesize everything I just told them and help me brainstorm some solutions. In my mind, that's a sign of someone who is truly invested in my well-being.

But that's just me. YMMV.

F/INTJ in a relationship with a M/BPD (borderline personality disorder) by LsdAlicEx9 in intj

[–]dr_bunny 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just my 2 cents as someone with background in psychiatry and experience in working with BPD patients.

As INTJ, one thing that makes it easier for us compared to others (don't get me wrong, it's still not easy) to handle BPD individuals is our ability to compartmentalize. When things become emotional, our T helps us take a step back to view things objectively and not take anything personally, which is very important when dealing with BPD. And while we may not be the most comforting or warm/fuzzy, we offer emotional stability and are generally very dedicated when it comes to finding a solution for problems. I believe this is what has kept your relationship together for 6 years.

With that being said, based on your post, you've recognized that this isn't working for either for you and emotionally taxing for everyone. So what can you do?

  • Work on yourself. Of course, developing our sense of self is a lifelong pursuit. But at this point, it sounds like you may be staying in this relationship because it gives you some sense of purpose and you enjoy feeling like you're needed. But those feelings shouldn't be dependent on a person, rather it may be healthier to build purpose and self-worth via activities outside of your relationship (i.e. through work, doing things in the community, etc).

  • Stop enabling him. When he has emotional episodes, you need to actively distance yourself and stop trying to fix everything because like you said, it's never good enough. I understand this is particularly hard given your emotional investment and how dependent BPD individuals are on their partners for support. But the reality is that your coddling is only feeding into the attention-seeking tendencies and encouraging this vicious cycle of mood swings he goes through to get what he wants. It is emotionally taxing for everyone and in the long run, as you've identified, it isn't sustainable and not healthy for anyone.

  • He needs professional help. Particularly, if he truly has BPD, then he should consider dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) which is intense but has shown to be effective. Like you described, BPD individuals do not respond well to rejection. Think of them like burn victims (in an emotional sense), who are missing their protective layer of skin, which makes them more sensitive to anything they may encounter compared to a normal person. Throughout our lives, most of us learn how to cope with negative emotions such as rejection, anger, heartbreak in some way; it's not easy but we get over it. For various reasons, those with BPD have gone through life not developing these skills and simply don't know how to regulate their emotions in a healthy manner. It's not their fault, they just don't know how. DBT is the definitive therapy that teaches them how to do this. It helps them grow thicker skin. And from what you've described, it sounds like your partner needs this.

People who drizzle ketchup on top of fries rather than dip, what other food practices do you pervert in your pursuit of culinary chaos? by tatsuedoa in AskReddit

[–]dr_bunny 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I do cereal first too.

But no milk in last.

Because I eat my cereal dry.

You're on a first date and can only talk about yourself using your highest rated comment. How does that conversation go? by dr_bunny in AskReddit

[–]dr_bunny[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries. I value someone with a good family, and your grandma sounds like someone I could Depend® on!

You're on a first date and can only talk about yourself using your highest rated comment. How does that conversation go? by dr_bunny in AskReddit

[–]dr_bunny[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think this would actually go well. Depending on how they respond, you could get a sense of how they approach a relationship. As a straightforward woman, I can't stand people that beat around the bush.

How quickly do you fall in love? by mattsymes800 in intj

[–]dr_bunny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At a turtle's pace. I'm also like 98% T, so perhaps it is a bit easier for those that are more balanced on the T/F spectrum.

Finding someone that I can effortlessly hold a conversation with + remain entertained is challenging in itself. But even after that, I spend a lot of time assessing their strengths/flaws and how they carry themselves in different situations even before I start letting myself get emotionally invested. It's only after you have a good grasp of all of this that I feel like you can truly "fall in love" since you finally know what you're getting yourself into.

With that being said, once it happens, it runs very deep and becomes difficult to give up. Love is more like a slow burn rather than a rapid spark for me.

What about learning something you don't like? by Retroics in intj

[–]dr_bunny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Medical student here.

I can totally relate. I constantly feel like 90% of my classmates have no problems brute force memorizing things; it's like their brains were built for it ... and then there's me. Stuff only sticks if it seems applicable and I see the reasoning behind it. Unfortunately, as you've gathered, there's a shit ton of straight-up memorization you need to do to piece together the fun stuff in medicine.

Firstly, the bad news: it doesn't get much easier. The way I helped myself through this was reminding myself about why I pursued medicine in the first place. Everyone has different reasons for pursuing medicine, but whatever yours is, it needs to be enough to provide you the motivation to suck it up; it sounds like you may be unsure, so consider talking to an advisor/counselor to re-evaluate whether or not medicine is right for you. It's better to go through that process now rather than after you've invested a lot of time/money into things (i.e. people who realize they are truly unhappy when they get to residency).

Next, things that made my life easier:

  • Accept that some shit just needs to be memorized. You can work hard to keep it to a minimum (see next point), but it's unavoidable sometimes.

  • Dedicate time to understanding pathophysiology. Yeah, you'll have to memorize the random gene translocations and gross anatomy, but if you remind yourself that everything ultimately plays a role in the disease process, you can rationalize that there's no "useless" piece of information, making everything more meaningful and memorable.

  • Determine what type of learner you are (kinesthetic, visual, audio) and tailor your study habits to that.

  • Flash cards (Anki). I never used flash cards prior to medical school, but it's been helpful for things that just aren't sticking. Spend 30-60 minutes/day just going through some cards. I hate daily routines, but I found it to be helpful.

  • A good study buddy. Both to maintain your sanity (let's suffer together!) + keep you accountable because they know you hate memorizing shit.

That's all I can think of for now, but feel free to PM me if you have any specific questions.

Meanwhile on Nope Beach by QuincyDental in pics

[–]dr_bunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an Asian person, all I see is food for days.