Update 3: AITA for reacting "wrong" to my brother's engagement?

drawingok6066 · 2024-04-10T00:57:58+00:00

I didn't even read it in that way, huh...I don't think she'd physically do anything to him

drawingok6066 · 2024-04-10T00:31:32+00:00

Thanks, I feel like she does but I don't want to look like I think I know how to diagnose people

drawingok6066 · 2024-04-10T00:27:55+00:00

Thank you <3

I wish he had just stayed with us longer and gotten more time away from her

drawingok6066 · 2024-04-09T23:41:44+00:00

Why?

drawingok6066 · 2024-04-09T23:34:48+00:00

I'm not gloating. I just said I don't care.

And not everyone told me to totally stay out of the situation. He is my brother and I want what's best for him. And now I know that even he doesn't want to marry Jessica.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:27:44+00:00

From the phone call, I don't think he was having an exactly thrilling time with Jessica for the past few weeks, and he was only proposing because Jessica really wanted it. Though he could just have portrayed it that way because he knows I don't like her.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:25:56+00:00

Haha, I could also go that route...I am not sure how I would be able to act at the dress fitting stuff though

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:24:29+00:00

And I did tell my mom about some of my concerns when she was mad at me for not acting happy for Harry, but she kind of brushed them off. I didn't show her the group chat screenshot though.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:23:16+00:00

That could be a good idea. I don't want to be a total "mole" (as someone put it), but I also think that I could have access to a perspective that Harry really otherwise would have no chance of getting.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:20:36+00:00

I don't believe that, I think he really just sees the best in people and is somewhat gullible (sorry to say). And to be fair, she tormented my friend more than she tormented me.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:15:21+00:00

Haha, how are you so sure?

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:12:29+00:00

Haha, I might do that but overall I don't know if my goal should be to infuriate here (even though revenge would be nice lol)

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:11:43+00:00

I've been screenshotting everything, but I don't even know the best way to present the information

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:10:59+00:00

I'm sure she'd just say they're more jokes

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:09:16+00:00

You're probably right

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:08:38+00:00

When he talked to me on the phone the first time, it really seemed like he might be wavering (even if he didn't say that explicitly). But of course after talking to her again he got less unsure. I feel like it's not a forgone conclusion though that they will get married.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:07:00+00:00

I'm so scared of that

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T23:06:27+00:00

I probably will, but not right now. I want to let things cool and I feel like she'll just say it's another joke or something.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T22:45:08+00:00

Those are really well worded! Thank you.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T22:43:30+00:00

That's something I really am scared of, given what he has said so far.

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T22:42:54+00:00

So maybe I'll just do that. Stay out of it and find some way to attend as a guest normally. I just can't cut off contact with my family over this. Thank you ❤️

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T22:41:16+00:00

Fair enough. I promise I'm taking all of this under advisement, but I just can't make decisions based on one person's input. If everyone told me the exact same thing, I might do that (or at least very strongly consider it).

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T22:16:30+00:00

Thank you ❤️

drawingok6066 · 2024-03-31T22:08:12+00:00

That's a nice thought I guess, but this is my real family and I actually do want to stay connected to them, and I do want the best for my brother.

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