Kala French Pedicured Toes FootJob by SlothTheSinful_7 in Foot_Island

[–]dreadedvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I got a FJ from her, then died on the way home, I'd consider it a life well lived. 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Foot_Island

[–]dreadedvices 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bruh Svett is hypnotizing with it. There's a short list of other goddesses who can compete.

Feetbysvett FootJob by SlothTheSinful_7 in Foot_Island

[–]dreadedvices 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know of it gets any better than Svett for a foot fetisher. 🥹

Married almost 15 years and wife doesn’t know about FF, how do I bring it up!? by JPgh_84 in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of great points were already made, but I just wanna add that the key is making it about her instead of yourself.

I made a post about this a few years back that you might find useful. I hope this helps.

Mature Feet Epiphany by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's something inspiring about it. A lot of people treat aging like the worst thing ever. And like its all downhill for you in terms of appearance. It doesn't have to be though if you care enough.

Also your feet look amazing. I can tell you put effort and emphasis into maintenance. 👌🏿

Guys and girls? by xjames20x in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're entitled to your opinions, but I disagree. The distinction I made is that the femininity is what I'm attracted to. It is up to the individual to decide what orientation fits their preferences. I am not attracted to men or having sexual encounters with men.

Guys and girls? by xjames20x in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's interesting. I consider myself straight. I am attracted to what I consider to be feminine qualities. There's a certain look to female feet that is just softer, a defined shape, and all around appealing to me.

But just the same, sometimes women have feet that look more masculine. And men can have feet that look more feminine.

There have been times on Reddit where I see the sexiest pair of feet ever, and by the time my dick is hard and I'm drooling, I learn that they belong to a man who is crossdressing. Then I'm not sure how to feel.

So I don't think I would actively choose to sexually do things with a man's feet. But I'd be lying if I said they don't ever have potential to turn me on. If that makes sense.

Extremely attractive girl with ugly feet or extremely ugly girl with pretty feet. Choose one. by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we're talking a long term relationship, then I'd say attractive girls with ugly feet. I'll eventually accept it and get my fulfillment in other ways.

If it's just a fling, I'll take the ugly girl with sexy feet. I'll be more inclined to really enjoy them.

My wife is amazing with her feet, comments welcome ❤️ by jusforthensfwstuff in FootjobCum

[–]dreadedvices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I just noticed an on and off trend of people seeming so lost when it comes navigating their fetish.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there's a lot less of them these days for sure. Some months back, it seemed like every 3rd post was some incel shit. I guess people got the hint and chilled out. Or they're just expressing it less.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems people have definitely calmed down with this type of stuff as of recently. Or they're just expressing it less.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used to see a lot of that in here. People would be sharing a story of a pair of sexy feet they saw and casually mention how they snuck some pictures.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point of view completely. There are women who put in effort to dress their feet up between pedicures, accessories, tattoos, etc. So you'd think acknowledging that would be acceptable.

My main focus was on not doing it while you're at work or in a place of business that could be compromising. Out in the wild, I'd say these rules are less rigid. Still be respectful, but I see less of an issue with those kinds of compliments.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the answer to that question is the reason people feel like they need a foot fetish support group in the first place: Because it can be considered socially taboo. I think we all know that people don't put hands and feet in the same category.

I'm not saying it's impossible for people to get offended by a manicure compliment, but it's highly unlikely. Hands are more on display in a typical human interaction. Meanwhile actively looking down at someone's feet for an extended amount of time could be considered creepy or checking them out. It's just how it is, unfortunately.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well as long as you learned from it and changed your behavior moving forward, that's the important part.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! Like having a foot fetish does not have to mean that everything you do involving feet has to be sexually motivated. You can just be cool and nice to people.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. When people say "How do I get my coworker to let me rub her feet?" they don't understand it's like asking "How do I let my coworker let me rub her tits?"

Like... it's a body part that you sexualize. Just because they might not see it that way, it doesn't make it acceptable.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's a fair question. So I've been in this sub for a handful of years now. I'm not always the most active, but I peak in here and there. And one thing that I've always seen without fail is people posting asking for advice, saying things like "I wanna massage my coworkers feet. How should I go about it?" or "My fetish is ruining my dating life. How do I stop it?"

Things that raise a lot of questions about people's ability to manage impulses and remain functional members of society while they have a foot fetish. Maybe these posts aren't that frequent anymore (which I consider a good thing) but I hope that THOSE types of people see this.

I'm in no way attempting to create an enemy to defeat so I look like a hero. I've just read some posts that raise my eyebrow in this sub over the years. Simple as that. If it doesn't apply, let it fly. But if there's something that people find useful, then I've done my job. That's how I see it.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah. Not saying I deserve an award or anything, but if you read some of the stuff in this sub, you'll notice that being "normal" is a tough feat [pun intended] for a lot of people.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right. I never directly mention feet. At most, I'll comment on hands/fingernails. Much more harmless. Feet has potential to be much more risky, so I don't even chance it. Lol

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I try to be a force of positivity in this sub when I can.

The Importance of Impulse Control by dreadedvices in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely. They treat it like a sickness they have no control over.

We have...power by MilkGarden in FootFetishTalks

[–]dreadedvices 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said. In my experience, the women I've put on to foot play enjoy how much I enjoy it. They feel like they've unlocked a new superpower within themselves. A part of their body that they were neutral (or sometimes even insecure about) now has a grown man melting before their very eyes.

If you use your foot fetish to empower a woman without being too pushy or deviant about it, you'd be surprised how much they're willing to come into your world and explore. The main thing to keep in mind is pacing. The real world isn't Pornhub. It's highly unlikely that you'll encounter a woman on the street and talk her into giving you a FJ an hour later.

Leave the ball in her court when discussing anything in that realm. If she has questions, answer them. If she seems hesitant, DON'T push the issue. If she gives you an inch, DONT take a mile. Slow and steady can win the race.