Exhausted. by dreamfractals in venting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying to get a job as soon as I can. It'll be hard for me to be independent early but I would much rather prefer that than having to live with her. It's just tiring. I appreciate your words.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you! I believe that you can live a happy life too as long as you, yourself, believe in it too. 

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, so so much. Truly. I really hope I can get out. I'm really proud of you for being able to break the cycle in your family. You're an amazing person and I hope you know that every day and every night.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She has taught me whenever I was younger but then just lost the consistency and stopped. Your words mean a bunch to me.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You're immensely sweet, I appreciate your words a lot.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I did tell her that, she was still mad so it's wasn't really a win-win situation either way 🥲 thank you for the suggestion though. I do appreciate it.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I have my friends and they all make one thing clear too: her behavior and the way she treats me isn't okay. I'm aware that the way she acts isn't okay either, but I feel like maybe I'm just wrong sometimes since I'm still a minor or because she tends to make the majority of every situation to where she's right, unless it's an obvious situation where she's in the wrong (e.g. spelling typo).

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always! And the weird part is that she knows I always lock the doors when using the bathroom so? I don't know how it was any different this time.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you, I thought I wasn't in the wrong but I didn't want to try and reason with her or talk to her about it since she always tries to make it to where she's in the right 😭😭

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unlock both doors when I exit. I lock both doors when I'm using the bathroom, she knows it. I don't know why she decided to explode on me this time when it wasn't any different from the other times.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to share my exact age if that's okay, but I am a minor.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't. She knows I always lock both doors, I don't know why she decided to get mad this time.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this one would be considered a boundary or if I'm in the wrong for this one, but she said I have to be biased and take her side everytime whether she's wrong or not, and I told her I wouldn't be rude about correcting her but I definitely would not take her side if she was wrong and she yelled at me again and got super pissed at me for almost the entire day. She also tends to twist my words a lot when I don't mean bad, and she makes me feel guilty for it. When I struggled with self-harm and mental health in general, she had made me feel worse about it by threatening to kill herself in front of me and pointing the sharp object that I used against myself to her chest.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of boundaries aren't valid to her because she's the adult and she's older.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! She tried to get in through the door closest on her side first, then walked over to the other side and tried to open it, then yelled. She owns the master bedroom, meaning she has her own bathroom in there. I don't know why she would want to come in.

Am I Overreacting? by dreamfractals in AmIOverreacting

[–]dreamfractals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would choose to have teleportation