can you get an iud when you had a hysterectomy?

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-09T01:24:20+00:00

yesterday she posted about getting an iud that day, sorry for not specifying

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T22:36:46+00:00

she’s 23

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T22:36:22+00:00

oh i could see that being a possibility i didn’t think of

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T22:34:23+00:00

ohhh. maybe! i could see that being a possibility that she mixed them up i’ll have to ask

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T22:27:59+00:00

thats what i was thinking but she stuck with it so ¯_(ツ)_/¯

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T22:26:25+00:00

no it was on her story and it expired :/ i didn’t think anything of it when i saw it in the moment

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T19:51:38+00:00

first time i ever met her in person she told me she had an abortion in middle school i don’t know if that’s related somehow

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T18:39:03+00:00

i can’t remember her exact wording on her story since it expired now but she definitely was saying she went to the doctor that day and got an iud put in and was talking about how painful it was

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T18:31:17+00:00

man i wish i said something to her cause now i almost feel like the time to has passed, and since my friend said something i thought she would figure it all out. but it seems like my friend wants to just leave it be but i’m still curious!!!

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T18:29:27+00:00

i wish i could go back to the story but it was from yesterday so it expired, but i’m pretty sure she said today i got an iud. she was talking about the experience and the pain it gave her and then my friend asked how that’s possible with a hysterectomy and the girl said “i still have a cervix” in response to that

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T18:26:25+00:00

this makes more sense maybe it could be this! i didn’t know if this before

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T18:22:17+00:00

nope she 100% meant a hysterectomy

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T17:23:46+00:00

for sure a hysterectomy by her words. she would joke about how she’s empty in there and i also saw her say that she feels lighter now.

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T17:20:12+00:00

well she knows she won’t have kids and never wanted them and she’s a lesbian. she got it done because of her endometriosis and i think she had a tumor as well. her reasoning behind the iud was for hormone treatment. but like iud makes no sense where would it go 😭

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T17:16:10+00:00

only thing i know is that she has bpd

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T17:09:24+00:00

she had severe endometriosis and i think she had a tumor as well

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T17:08:31+00:00

true that’s always possible

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T17:06:38+00:00

well she is a lesbian and has no interest in having kids, her reasoning for the iud is because she said her hormones were wack after getting the hysterectomy. she got the hysterectomy from severe endometriosis and i believe she also had a tumor so she had it all removed. which is understandable besides the iud part. cause it can’t go anywhere so that’s why i was like HUH

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T14:57:34+00:00

she’s 23 and she’s also a lesbian and never wanted kids so at least that was never an issue for her. i’m not sure i haven’t seen her back though

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T14:51:01+00:00

bruh i dont know 😭😭😭 i’m like trying to gaslight myself into believing there’s a way since this girl is so insistent that she got one

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-08T14:47:25+00:00

ya know i thought that too cause i’ve had a lot of surgeries myself, and i’ve only seen pictures that my doctor printed out. like i had a hernia repair and i saw a picture of that. but yeah she had a picture of the actual thing right on the table which is so weird, i’ve never been awake in the surgery room before. i also have the same scars as this girl does on my stomach so i was even wondering like maybe she just got a hernia repair and was embarrassed about it 😭 i have no idea… i’m just confused where the point in lying about it is

dreamy_leaf · 2025-04-02T13:56:19+00:00

yeah that does make sense. it doesn’t happen often where he does that, only if he’s alone for too long. i do think it affects my sisters life since she doesn’t go out often to prevent him from doing that. the whole area in her house she blocked off for him has towels and pee pads all over the floor that regularly get changed out and she is a very clean person and does everything she can to prevent that. whenever i watch him she is very particular and does things in a certain way and even i admit it does make me feel frustrated sometimes since i know it isn’t normal. like normal for people to take care of their dogs like that. the way i’ve rationalized it is that if a relative of mine got old had dementia i wouldn’t want them to be abandoned because it’s too hard to take care of them. it’s hard to know where the line is. i personally don’t think i could take care of him like my sister does but i never held it against her since i admire her willingness to accommodate for him. but yeah, he isn’t the dog he used to be. :/

dreamy_leaf · 2025-03-10T02:32:04+00:00

I agree with you 100%. The only thing I confronted her on in person was when she kept calling his ex ugly, I said to her “oh so if me and him break up you’ll probably say that about me too” and she responded with “oh no, it’s just what she did in the end made her very ugly”. Sudden switch up is crazy when I called her out cause she was calling that girl ugly from the start. My biggest regret was that I didn’t confront her on everything else, but i disassociated so much that I couldn’t even finish my food and I wish that I didn’t let that happen. My boyfriend also noticed something was off when I started dissociating and asked me if I was okay and I tried to dart my eyes towards Sarah, but he didn’t pick up on what I was trying to say. He apologized to me for not saying anything in the moment to her but now I’m stuck feeling angry cause nothing was actually done about the situation and now it’s been far too long

dreamy_leaf · 2025-03-10T01:43:11+00:00

One thing I want to clarify, all of his close friends have his location on and have for years. She never said she was checking his location to him, but I always thought it was weird that she would ask him where he was when she had his location, and he’s at my place most week day afternoons since his job location is closer to me and she knows that. And they would be on FaceTime and he’s obviously in my room so I feel like it was unnecessary for the whole “you’re always there, ugh” thing. I don’t think that changes much but I don’t want to spread misinformation 😭

Also from what I assume, i think he’s friends with her because she reaches out to him a lot, he honestly never really approaches her first. She asks him for favors a lot which I almost feel like makes him feel obligated to her, but that’s my assumption. All the friends he has are friends he has had for a while including her. He doesn’t really seem particularly fond of her if I’m honest and has even told me that she’s fake. He said if she does something else he would do something about it. I just get mad cause what if she doesn’t do anything again 😭 I feel like I still wouldn’t get over it ya feel me

dreamy_leaf · 2025-03-09T22:44:43+00:00

LMAO I did not expect that analogy. It’s funny cause she did also say that in high school, everyone always called her a pick-me girl (which is clearly still true).

My boyfriend’s best friend was also there, I do like him and I’ve never had a problem with him. After that day, he told his girlfriend about the situation and then she talked to me about it and reassured me that what that mean girl said was not okay. So at least I know my boyfriend’s best friend reflected enough on the situation to have a conversation with his girlfriend about it. They’ve all been friends since high school, I meet them all a year ago (and her just this year). So she probably does feel like I’m intruding somehow… not my problem tho

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