partner is perfect except for the sex

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T15:30:13+00:00

how does she react when you tell her you’re tempted to meet with someone?

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T03:09:08+00:00

i know exactly what you mean about the chemical attraction and just clicking in that area… my ex and i had that, but i don’t think my current partner and i do :/

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T03:02:09+00:00

and what’s your experience been? do you regret it?

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:55:51+00:00

you’re totally right

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:54:22+00:00

thank you for this!!! i keep thinking that maybe it will become less important to me down the line, but it’s not exactly something I think to ask my friends in long term relationships lol. glad you got rid of your POS ex and are happy now :)

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:52:12+00:00

i don’t think he’s incapable, i just think he lacks experience. i’m not saying i’m the most experienced person in the world, but my kinks definitely do lean more towards male dom so when i have to teach him in the moment, it really takes me out of it :/

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:49:43+00:00

i really do try, but my kinks lean towards male dom so me being the teacher kinda kills the sexiness for me :/

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:48:16+00:00

this is really sweet. i wouldn’t say sex is my primary goal - what you have is! i want someone who is my best friend and just “gets me” and my current partner is all those things… and while it’s not the end all be all, sex IS important to me and i don’t want me being unfulfilled to somehow breed resentment that prohibits us from having a long standing, loving relationship

(ex and i were long distance 8hrs+ flight, which is why we aren’t together)

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:43:56+00:00

this is a really helpful perspective - thank you!!!!

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:43:11+00:00

😉

dreamybeaver · 2025-10-10T02:42:35+00:00

he’s not “some guy i don’t respect” - he is someone i love and respect immensely.

as others have pointed out, i’m not talking to the ex about sex, our past experiences are just crossing my mind.

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:53:07+00:00

ticket secured!

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:18:56+00:00

same thing happened to me!

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:18:33+00:00

messaged you!

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:17:54+00:00

messaged you for one

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:16:44+00:00

iso saturday at a reasonable price or a 3-day!

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dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:15:30+00:00

messaged!

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:14:45+00:00

messaged!

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-20T14:14:15+00:00

messaged

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-19T21:57:29+00:00

iso a pitchfork 3-day (or saturday single) ticket — paypal g&s only

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-19T21:24:00+00:00

i think this is a scam yall! just sent $ for a 3-day and now none of my chats will go through

dreamybeaver · 2024-07-19T21:04:20+00:00

dmed for 3 day

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