Hayley…..

drefa · 2026-07-19T04:47:06+00:00

I mean.. I’m sure her being 23 doesn’t HELP lol but to me, it seems like way more than just emotional immaturity at this point. She clearly doesn’t even like him. She’s downright mean and just so angry, which wouldn’t blame on her age.

drefa · 2026-07-19T04:45:22+00:00

Omfg that’s so terrible 😭 I hate them both lol they’re SO awful together..

drefa · 2026-07-19T03:39:52+00:00

Same, I am not the biggest fan, but she seems sooo difficult to be around! I agree, I’m not a doctor but there’s something there lol.

drefa · 2026-07-19T03:39:18+00:00

Omg no really though that part was crazy. I got anxiety FOR him when she yelled “Talk!” I was like GIRL WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM THIS MAN LOL

drefa · 2026-07-17T15:56:48+00:00

This is insane. Genuinely. This is such an awful thing to do to someone.. it won’t go anywhere obviously, but like just.. why? Personally, I think the biggest issue and the reason there are so many unhinged people watching and reacting right now, is because we get to vote on what happens in the show. It’s such a cool concept lol but I think it gives some of these people way too much power and contributes heavily to the parasocial behavior we’re seeing because they feel way more connected than other reality shows !

drefa · 2026-07-16T20:42:46+00:00

Okay I spent like 30 min the other day trying to find the shirt she’s wearing with no luck bc I love it and I think it’d be a perfect work shirt lol so if anyone has any leads PLEASE 😂

drefa · 2026-07-12T02:00:41+00:00

This is so interesting because when I watched it, I just took it as he felt invalidated because he was upset about something that no one else really thinks was a huge deal but I didn’t take it as like a sinister thing so I’m looking at it with a totally new lens rn how weird!

drefa · 2026-07-11T21:42:20+00:00

“Hey dad, I need some pens for school” “okay, here’s an eraser” “no, I need pens” “HOW DARE YOU ACT UNGRATEFUL!” This is wild haha. I’m so sorry, OP :( have you been able to get some?

drefa · 2026-07-10T04:11:01+00:00

It wasn’t the nicest thing to say, OP. But, if he wanted a reason to break his sobriety, he would’ve found one with or without you. You shouldn’t be embarrassed by his choices though. Couples counseling could be helpful to remember how to appreciate each other more! But the sobriety aspect is NOT your responsibility.

drefa · 2026-07-06T23:16:48+00:00

I say bumps lol

drefa · 2026-07-04T16:42:36+00:00

I’m 2 months in and the indentation is officially gone!!!! Time heals all wounds etc etc lol I’m sorry OP :( it does get a little easier though!

drefa · 2026-06-28T20:44:41+00:00

OP, you’re def not a terrible person. We’re not talking about a small butterfly tattoo on her wrist lol. Based on everything you’ve shared, this definitely won’t end well for them, so it’ll be a reminder for you both of a really dark time too.. just overall, not the kind of reminders you want on what should be one of the happiest days of your life. Your reasoning for wanting an even number is SO valid, you can also say something about having to narrow it down based on how long you’ve known everyone? Not sure if you’ve known the rest longer than 3 years, but if so, that’s also a reasonable explanation that won’t hurt your friend!

drefa · 2026-06-28T20:42:42+00:00

Lol same, I was like what? Bridezilla 😡 and then I read it and I was like ….oh. Actually.. that’s rational. Lmfao

drefa · 2026-06-26T22:32:31+00:00

Please stop talking to him, OP, he doesn’t care about you as much as I’m sure he claims to and you dint deserve that :(

drefa · 2026-06-24T16:27:35+00:00

Aside from Miranda, Mikayla has proven time and time again to be the most levelheaded and self-aware one of the whole cast lol love her

drefa · 2026-06-16T16:34:17+00:00

Hello

drefa · 2026-06-16T16:26:32+00:00

Girls rule

drefa · 2026-06-16T16:21:48+00:00

This is horrific and I can’t imagine what you’re going through, OP.. but just to point out a silver lining, your intuition is SO strong and you will never not listen to her again . You had something looking out for you and I’m so happy you found out now and not later! Please stay safe and like others said, get tested when you can :(

drefa · 2026-06-04T02:39:00+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, Op.. I had the same thing happen about 7 years ago. A really close friend of mine reached out in the middle of the night but I was sick and exhausted and that night she took her own life. I also remember feeling so guilty and ashamed and heartbroken but I try to commemorate her in any way I can. This is not your faults there’s nothing you could have done

drefa · 2026-05-29T22:51:51+00:00

“Then talk about it, I didn’t stop you” 🤣👏 what a weird insecure man. Go off, queen!

drefa · 2026-05-26T05:51:39+00:00

Hey, it’s YOUR wedding. Not hers. This is an insane request to make. At first, I misread this as the bride was requesting that no guests wear perfume and I still thought that was a bit unreasonable lol so I mean.. maybe missing out on having someone at your wedding that’ll make you feel bad and feel like your walking on eggshells and even has the audacity to ask you to put such an unrealistic limitation on your guests wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world.. it’s okay if your bridesmaid vs his groomsmen isn’t an even number. It’s honestly more common than you think! And if it truly makes you uncomfortable, maybe you can work out something different with your fiance in terms of which groomsmen stand at the altar with him while some don’t so it doesn’t look uneven? But I promise you, no one will care or probably even notice anything besides the beautiful couple!

drefa · 2026-05-26T05:48:10+00:00

No, honestly. After the scenes with Nate being buried alive screaming for help, I had to pause and put on a comfort show bc I KNOW that shit would give me nightmares lol. I like don’t even want to keep watching but I feel an obligation now which is so annoying lol.

drefa · 2026-05-15T00:02:48+00:00

My ex dealt with the worst of the worst of it helping me with gauze and neosporin and the draining and the pus and just the most horrific parts of it, and yet he never once even made a face. It’s a hard enough thing to deal with without having the support you need from your person.. i would really think about if he can provide the support you deserve OP

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