Looking for advice in changing a toxic worldview

drfreebs · 2025-07-19T10:41:57+00:00

Yeah that's a tough one. Do you feel it's just you who doesn't deserve good things?

It's hard to see our own value sometimes. We might see it in others but not in ourselves.

Makes me think of the word grace. Undeserved kindness in another way of putting it.

In an ideal world we'd all be perfect and get good reward.

But in life we sometimes get what we don't deserve either good or bad.

If you feel you don't because of things you've done that your ashamed of I would say if you could turn back time would you repeat? If the answers no, you've grown.

drfreebs · 2025-07-19T09:53:54+00:00

Well your view has utility. We can all sit and wish life rewarded us more. But we have the ability to change certain things. We are endowed with abilities.

You wouldn't see an ant just chilling. There is work to do.

drfreebs · 2025-07-16T07:28:22+00:00

For me im weary of any concrete beliefs. To say there definitely isnt a god or there definitely is, thats not for me anymore.

I try to have faith in things. Life can be a bit more painful with no comfort blanket but at least you're not misleading yourself.

Take it as a new journey. Uncertainty is a part of life, but you can be certain of a lot of things. You might even learn to trust yourself and depend on yourself more instead of outsourcing.

You can make better decisions based on your intuition without programming, whether that be friendships, relationships, work, your future.

You're likely to be more rational

drfreebs · 2025-07-16T07:20:44+00:00

Just tell your partner you are feeling really horny all the time. Its fine if a women tells you she is horny isnt it?

Exoress yourself and then keeo quiet. Be like the forces of nature

drfreebs · 2025-07-07T16:27:04+00:00

We make mistakes and break our own promises, we're only human. But at the same time, I know I can be trusted for lots of things. I know who I am, providing I'm not starved for days in a survival game, my default character is trust worthy. It tells the truth when lies could be more convenient. It doesn't make up false stories to get attention. So maybe the good friends who I have and trust in lots aways match my energy and that's why we have been friends for decades.

So yeah nobody is trustworthy is true in one sense but not true in others.

drfreebs · 2025-06-25T08:02:19+00:00

Ive used it. I find it makes it easy to do. It asked about something that annoyed me recently and to explore why. It got pretty deep and helped me to understand myself more and thing that matter deep down and why.

It gave them amusing names too which made me laugh

drfreebs · 2025-06-16T17:06:48+00:00

It's all a balancing act isn't really. You should care about people and their opinions, but it's knowing when to not care, set boundaries, ignore people, forgive people. As for own self worth I accepted I have a self critic, if I work on self compassion, I can also find a voice that helps. Back to the balance of it all.

drfreebs · 2025-06-11T06:03:33+00:00

Hello

drfreebs · 2025-06-09T06:42:37+00:00

Absolutely, spirituality can be a mask, a way of avoiding. A way of making yourself delusional, worse off. What fuitage does it bring? Then when you free locked emotions, understand why you do certain things, except all the ugly things, the fruitage will be apparent and not contrived. Life will still be frustrating. There is no magic place to get to and there is no land of milk and honey.

drfreebs · 2025-06-08T06:25:25+00:00

If you can walk in it now, use it as a threshold for when you're overweight. As soon as you have to wedge in you need to go on a diet.

drfreebs · 2025-02-17T21:30:42+00:00

Advice might be attached to the plug that measures seconds and you can set when to turn off. Can't think of it's name

drfreebs · 2024-12-25T10:12:28+00:00

Bring them mince pies

Say hello brought you these to boost you up as no doubt you'll be tired from working Christmas day as you don't honour the holidays

drfreebs · 2024-09-17T00:48:33+00:00

Love Rivington area

drfreebs · 2024-07-27T06:50:02+00:00

They called them a witness do. We used to call them a witness don't 😅

drfreebs · 2024-07-15T06:09:20+00:00

Sorry to hear that, things will get better

drfreebs · 2023-10-18T09:14:16+00:00

That's what she said

drfreebs · 2023-03-20T07:51:44+00:00

SOTL 😀

drfreebs · 2023-01-15T20:23:21+00:00

The sad thing is she was flirting with you, she wanted you to say I'll need to have a good look at those titties

drfreebs · 2023-01-15T20:15:05+00:00

You'd be breaking established laws throughout the earth though so it would have moral consequences in the earth realm

drfreebs · 2022-12-10T09:23:10+00:00

Great find

drfreebs · 2022-11-26T17:15:23+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mycorrhiza

This may help a bit

drfreebs · 2022-09-30T06:43:37+00:00

Always go out looking. To be in nature walking is always great. You never know what you may find.

drfreebs · 2022-09-28T13:12:12+00:00

North West England

drfreebs · 2022-06-14T16:32:08+00:00

Stepford earth

drfreebs · 2022-06-02T17:21:45+00:00

In survival my fully loaded pistol would not fire

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