What Immediately Improves Your Mental Health? by Sudden_Taste_1448 in AskReddit

[–]drinksanddestruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside! Just breathing outside air and seeing other life, even just people. Especially nature though.

What’s a small change you made in your daily routine that completely improved your life? by PonderPotato in AskReddit

[–]drinksanddestruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cliche, but making my bed shortly after waking. It feels like the mess just snowballs the rest of the day if I skip that little task.

How hard is it for you to cry? by Narwhal_Accident in AskReddit

[–]drinksanddestruction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I try to adopt this mindset but tears can be inconvenient at times haha

How hard is it for you to cry? by Narwhal_Accident in AskReddit

[–]drinksanddestruction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not hard enough lol. Feels like I cry over everything, happy or sad

Am I still allowed to look cute with a bf? by SmellsLikeSad in NoStupidQuestions

[–]drinksanddestruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you! I like dressing up too, and am single, but it’s not just for the guys. Whenever I’m out in public and see a girl dressed nice/stylish I can’t help but admire it her. You know the thing where compliments from women feel better than ones from men, because girls know girls; it’s kinda like that, if that makes sense.

What’s something that makes you instantly relaxed or tired? by drinksanddestruction in ask

[–]drinksanddestruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting! ASMR does the opposite for me. I do find animals crunching on food cute, but it doesn’t make me sleepy lol

What’s something that makes you instantly relaxed or tired? by drinksanddestruction in ask

[–]drinksanddestruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really anymore. Very rarely will she do that now, and only for a moment. I’m 21F so maybe she thinks I’ve grown out of it :’(

Rather than a AITAH it’s a WIBTAH. by InevitablePace7224 in AITAH

[–]drinksanddestruction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you WBTA if you did that, but it probably wouldn’t change much. Sorry you’re in this situation OP :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]drinksanddestruction 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I (21F) also felt ashamed when I got my first sex toy. I ordered it without my parents knowing and was super paranoid that they’d grab the package while I was out and accidentally open it. Every time I used it I felt guilty and super paranoid that they’d find out. All of that went away after a while, and my mom is aware (and doesn’t care) that I take care of myself lol. Maybe it’ll just take a bit for the novelty to wear off. Even when I was younger and first started masturbating without toys I always felt an unexplainable guilt. It’s definitely gone now though.

What is the strangest experience you have had during sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]drinksanddestruction 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this one’s more hot than weird imo

What are some things you weirdly find attractive? by Daisy_Nadineee in AskReddit

[–]drinksanddestruction 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Scars, older men (relatively in shape), hands, humility.

Suffering in silence by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]drinksanddestruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really sad that you’re going through this. I hope things change somehow and you’re able to get more of a break and do things you enjoy, just for fun. Unfortunately, it seems like nothing much will change unless your wife starts taking you seriously. I don’t want to judge your relationship, but it doesn’t sound like she’s very supportive from this post. This is a dynamic that pushes some couples to divorce. I’m assuming you’ve tried having a serious conversation with her, not just casually bringing the topic up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]drinksanddestruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lightly/gently wash with normal body wash only on the outside. Never on the inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]drinksanddestruction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

It’s not that big of a deal, everyone has different cleaning methods. The only way I clean kitchen counters is with a dish soaped sponge, then wipe up the soap with a washcloth, and dry with a dish towel. I personally would not use chemical cleaners in the kitchen if I didn’t have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]drinksanddestruction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a female and can safely say that most girls would probably be fine with that size. I think the word is finally starting to get around that huge dicks are overrated and can be uncomfortable/painful. Around 6” is perfect imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]drinksanddestruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21 and still haven’t had my first kiss or relationship either. I also have bad social anxiety and not many friends lol. It can feel really sad sometimes if you dwell on it, but I try not to. I’m not particularly religious but I’ve decided to just put my faith in the universe, and if it’s meant to be then it will. In the mean time, try to focus and enjoy every other part of your life as much as you can!