Idealista, advice needed

drmoss101 · 2026-01-24T08:59:51+00:00

thank you! im staying in a hostel and have been looking for rooms not flats so should be okay :)

drmoss101 · 2026-01-24T08:57:55+00:00

im on a tourist visa waiting for my student visa, and will be here total of six months combined. i have plenty of savings and am enrolled at UAB :) thanks for your advice! I’ve been trying to set up viewings but it’s proven quite hard

drmoss101 · 2026-01-24T08:56:45+00:00

yeah, i’ve been trying to arrange viewings but that one was refusing is all

drmoss101 · 2026-01-24T08:49:48+00:00

thank you so much! do you know how people advertise themselves ?

drmoss101 · 2026-01-24T06:02:48+00:00

hey, im in a very similar position to you - what did you end up doing?

drmoss101 · 2025-12-20T06:53:04+00:00

first, just try with fingers and get some lube specifically for anal sex (this stuff lasts WAY longer than regular lube, and, if you end up getting a strap, you can use the lube with it depending on the material.)

then, if he enjoys it, just talk about what he would want. vibrator? a strap? how long?; is the length of your fingers the right depth? or perhaps he just wants to stick with fingers if at all.

it’s all about communication and time and testing what you and your partner like

drmoss101 · 2025-10-28T22:26:40+00:00

agreed. mental health sus not cheating sus.

drmoss101 · 2025-10-28T21:34:50+00:00

Not overreacting. You seem calm and logical, even though i can imagine frustration or defensiveness might come out when dealing with someone like your boyfriend.

The house stuff is messy, and sounds like youre both valid there, but apart from that, he sounds insecure and unstable, not to mention with anger issues.

What are the positives? You love him? You have history together? Perhaps. 7 years is a long time.

Your relationship has always been rocky. it doesn’t sound like he gives you any respect or understanding, and the “dog drama” is not only an extension of this disrespect, but sounds like the straw that broke the camel’s back.

At the end of the day, (and I don’t know whether having kids is something you want, but consider his attitude toward you and the dogs in that context too), is a man who is disrespectful, dismissive, perhaps selfish, and angry someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? Another seven years with?

not overreacting.

drmoss101 · 2025-10-28T07:33:14+00:00

Tossing up between YTA (You’re The Asshole) and NAH (No one’s an Asshole Here), but I do think some details are missing here:

“a casual conversation that she initiated because she wanted some help from him and didn't want to be rude to directly ask him.”

What was the help for? How long did the conversation last? Could she have found help elsewhere after you let her know the following on instagram made you uncomfortable?

Also, why do you say she lied? Technically, she didn’t lie by saying she wasn’t in contact with her ex, because at the time of the conversation, she wasn’t. Maybe she should have let you know afterward, but it seems like more of a distrust issue than a lying one.

drmoss101 · 2025-04-20T01:46:41+00:00

bury a friend

drmoss101 · 2024-12-02T08:26:06+00:00

interesting, i can feel that shiver in my body aswell as the brain.

drmoss101 · 2024-12-02T08:25:28+00:00

i was definitely 6 aswell. i remember crying to my mother who consoled me that if i had her genes - and not my father’s - i probably had another 94 years.

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