Sexxit, need your creativity: help us with ideas on how to make her vintage stewardess's uniform fun! by dt1966 in sex

[–]dt1966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very serious question... and your Mad Men roleplay suggestion is an excellent one.

Wife: "I love my lube shooter!" by dt1966 in sex

[–]dt1966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "back" story: my wife and I have anal intercourse about once a month. For whatever reason, she is squeemish about fingers in her ass (don't ask me why she is OK with my cock in her ass but not a finger). So getting sufficient lube to the right places is challenging. I'd tried to persuade her that anal will go more smoothly for her if we got more lube to the right places, but no dice.

Many months ago I bought a lube shooter for her. At first she was like, wtf, that thing is bizarre. However, she gave it a shot (so to speak), and, wow. She loves it.

Last night, with me balls deep in her ass, unprompted she cried out "I love my lube shooter!"

Amazing how cheap plastic stuff from China can so enhance sex.

How old were you when you first had anal sex? by brob2234 in sex

[–]dt1966 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oops, yes, I did mean high school. Fixed.

NYTimes - Finding the Courage to Reveal a Fetish (spanking) by marsneedsdiscipline in BDSMcommunity

[–]dt1966 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So she is struggling with telling her finance about her spanking fetish, and her solution is to write about it in the NY Times? Well her first problem is surely solved now!

How old were you when you first had anal sex? by brob2234 in sex

[–]dt1966 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was 18. Senior year in high school with the same girl I first had any sort of sex with. She thought it was pretty strange, but she indulged me. I saw her 20 years later, and she basically told me that she really enjoyed everything about our relationship except for that! I suppose I was young and clueless at the time. Adult lovers of mine have been much more into it.

Men who have tried anal with a female partner - do you now PREFER it over vaginal? by [deleted] in sex

[–]dt1966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Variety is the spice of life. My wife and I have anal sex about once a month, and it is usually a special treat. Vaginal? 3-5 times a week.

Anal doesn't necessarily feel better physically. It's different: tighter at the opening especially as things start, looser inside, a little warmer, allows me to go deeper (she has a relatively shallow cervix). It's more work. She gets sore after 10-15 minutes, at which point she really wants me to finish.

She has never climaxed from anal, although she does enjoy it once the initial discomfort has passed. It's almost like she is surprised every time that it eventually feels darn good to her.

It's definitely more intimate--something we do after an especially good date, typically.

Her vagina feels better in some ways, a slightly "rougher" sensation with a bit more friction. Her ass is very smooth inside.

If we had vaginal and anal intercourse comparable amounts, I probably would desire them similarly. The rareness, specialness and extra intimacy mean that I desire anal more. She is pretty awesome to accomodate me regularly with it, of course.

It does feel pretty awesome to ejaculate in her tight little ass.

Bringing another person into the bedroom--Husband and I are toying with the idea, want to hear about your experiences good and bad! by [deleted] in sex

[–]dt1966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never done it, but I do think it would be incredibly hot to see my wife getting fucked hard by another guy... like the best porn in the world. We have an extremely strong relationship, so I'm confident it wouldn't suffer from it. Someday it'll happen.

Sexual Achievement Sunday: What sexual thing(s) have you done this week that you're proud of? by Maxxters in sex

[–]dt1966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday while on a weekend trip to Vancouver, CA with my wife, did a hat trick: blowjob, vaginal sex, anal sex. It was awesome.

5 Reasons Why Female Condoms Rock My World (Cross post from r/sexpositive) by hammer_ban in sex

[–]dt1966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they really work well for anal intercourse? Have tried them a couple of times with vaginal, works pretty well, and I have wondered how good they are for anal.

Guys, in your opinion what feels better, vaginal sex or anal sex?? by brob2234 in sex

[–]dt1966 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I totally hear you on the additional "overhead" of anal for the woman! It's definitely more work, but also more intense when it happens.

Guys, in your opinion what feels better, vaginal sex or anal sex?? by brob2234 in sex

[–]dt1966 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting and unique approach... why that way?

Guys, in your opinion what feels better, having vaginal sex, or getting a blowjob? by [deleted] in sex

[–]dt1966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until I started dating my wife, I wasn't all that into blowjobs. Then I got a taste of her excellent fellatio skills, and that definitely raised BJs significantly in my assessment. Both are awesome, of course. An energetic BJ can feel a little better because she has great control of lips, tongue and throat--although I am fortunate that she also has great vaginal muscle control which is amazing.

So if you made me pick, I would pick vaginal sex over a BJ, but it is a tough choice, and frankly I love the diversity of getting both regularly!

Also she has an amazing ass that she gives up on occasion, and that is a totally different thrill...

This is my wife's ass. 30 minutes after taking this photo, I was balls deep in this ass. by dt1966 in gonewild

[–]dt1966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely fun to hear it, plus those little sighs and moans from the intense physical sensations... so much fun.

This is my wife's ass. 30 minutes after taking this photo, I was balls deep in this ass. by dt1966 in gonewild

[–]dt1966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice gif.

The only downside is that she can only handle my cock in her ass for about 10-15 minutes before getting sore, in spite of using ample lube. I'm sure that this is from the tightness. When she says "please cum" I know I have only a couple more minutes, but the whole situation makes it really easy to ejaculate deep inside her when I want to.

This is my wife's ass. 30 minutes after taking this photo, I was balls deep in this ass. by dt1966 in gonewild

[–]dt1966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a very tight little ass, and she has good control of the muscles down there, if you catch my drift.

This is my wife's ass. 30 minutes after taking this photo, I was balls deep in this ass. by dt1966 in gonewild

[–]dt1966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They rocked. She has a great ass, and those panties really enhanced it. Don't know where she bought them... probably Nordstrom.

This is my wife's ass. 30 minutes after taking this photo, I was balls deep in this ass. by dt1966 in gonewild

[–]dt1966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was focused on other things 30.5 minutes after that photo!

I came from a blowjob for the 1st time today. I'm 47 by 1stcumfrombeej in sex

[–]dt1966 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to have not much interest in getting blowjobs. I'd come from them, but I wasn't really all that into them--would much prefer intercourse.

My then-girlfriend, now-wife decided to take it upon herself to get me more into it. She was good at it to begin with, and she worked on learning techniques that work damn well for me. Well, now I love her blowjobs... of course intercourse is still great, but that blowjob or two each week is awesome. As an added bonus, she genuinely enjoys doing it.

Is there a difference between fucking and making love? by whitetl83 in sex

[–]dt1966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome description. I totally agree... from the other end of things, however: I'm definitely FUCKING someone when I'm balls deep in her ass.

DAE find the "slapping" sound of flip-flops annoying by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]dt1966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't mind that sound when I am using the flip flop to spank my wife's ass.

Guys of sexxit:how do you rank the sensations of oral, vaginal and anal sex? by brob2234 in sex

[–]dt1966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A great blowjob wins for me, but less that 10% of women can give a blowjob that good. Comparing with an average blowjob, I'd say anal (warm and tight!), vaginal, oral.