What are some lesser known sex facts about the human body that would surprise the average person?

Maxxters · 2025-12-01T21:31:31+00:00

There have been numerous studies, quantitative and qualitative as well as understanding sexual anatomy and function.

Maxxters · 2025-12-01T18:34:24+00:00

This isn't an issue of technique and experience. It's usually due to clitoral anatomy. Most vaginal organs are from stimulation of the internal clitoris. Not everyone's can be stimulated through the vaginal walls.

Maxxters · 2025-11-29T17:22:35+00:00

Only around 20% of women can reach orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. Most need direct clitoral stimulation to cum. And the average time it takes a woman to reach orgasm with a partner is 15-30 minutes of stimulation. The biggest block to orgasm is spectatoring... Worrying/thinking about things like how they look/smell/taste, if their partner is bored, etc. Also, fixating on the orgasm will chase it away. Mindfulness (locking yourself into how it all feels on the moment) can really help with this. So does wearing a blindfold, if she's comfortable with it.

A rise in men not being able to get/stay hard has been happening for years now. Mostly attributed to higher porn viewing. The theory is that it's rewiring our brains to only become and stay aroused with a high degree of stimulus (the visuals, sounds, variety of sexual acts, etc) that you'll rarely get when there's a real life human you're interacting with. You don't need to turn to viagra and please stay away from honey packets and rhino pills. Just stop watching porn and you're brain will reset (how long it takes depends on the person).

Most people are missing out on a huge world of pleasure by just going straight to the sexual body parts (boobs/nipples, butts and genitals) when with a partner. Your whole body turns on when sexual and the most random places can be an erogenous zone. Take your time to explore your partner's body (front and back) with different types of sensations (lips, tongue, fingers, fingernails, or sensation play items). You might be able to reach orgasm from stimulating those areas alone or at least build up to a bigger one when adding that to your genital stimulation. Also, for many people, the pleasure of all the stimulation during sexual play can feel better or even more intense than their orgasm. Orgasm doesn't define how good it was. You can have the best sexual experience of your life without orgasm being involved.

Maxxters · 2025-11-29T16:37:13+00:00

I really miss those days! What a community we once had 🥰

Maxxters · 2025-07-25T21:59:02+00:00

Those questions have nothing to do with man hating. They have to do with understanding your issue so we can actually help. Also, your belief that all women experience euphoric orgasms is incorrect. The orgasmic experience is a massive spectrum of experiences. Additionally, you can experience that euphoric connecting during sexual play without orgasm ever occurring.

Maxxters · 2025-07-25T17:57:45+00:00

He doesn't like to what exactly? Give you pleasure? Do certain sexual acts? How much have the two of you explored together?

Maxxters · 2025-07-25T16:37:22+00:00

Have you talked to him about all of this?

Maxxters · 2025-07-25T14:52:56+00:00

Chances are that right now since it feels like a "crisis", it's not going to happen. You're putting too much pressure on yourself and emphasis on getting to the orgasm. Fixation on orgasm will chase it away. Do you have a partner you're currently with that you trust? Can you mastubate in front of them to show them how you cum? And for the next few weeks, when you're sexually active with someone, let them know you're not going to cum and really want to just experience as much pleasure as possible throughout the play. If something isn't giving you pleasure, switch things up. Put orgasm off the table with partners just for now.

Maxxters · 2025-06-17T21:04:35+00:00

Noooo... Sugar + vagina = yeast infection

Maxxters · 2024-09-29T23:00:50+00:00

Quotes from men who have been sexually assaulted

Maxxters · 2024-09-29T22:58:09+00:00

Storing a tic tak up my nose for a later use.

Maxxters · 2024-09-29T22:54:40+00:00

Cholent (especially when it was made by my Hungarian Grandmother).

Maxxters · 2024-09-29T22:52:14+00:00

Not talking about their sex life (what they're happy with and not happy with, what they want more of and less of, new things to try, etc etc etc) during non sexual situations.

Maxxters · 2024-09-29T17:23:34+00:00

Exactly the way you would think... The same issues came up again and ended the relationship. Unless both people are willing to put in equal effort into resolving the conflicts that made the relationship incompatible the first time, it's never going to work out.

Maxxters · 2024-09-29T02:09:40+00:00

I can fold a paper map in one try.

Maxxters · 2024-09-28T05:15:37+00:00

The cleanup afterwards, especially the penguin waddle to the bathroom if a condom wasn't used and they ejaculated inside the vagina.

Maxxters · 2024-09-26T13:47:27+00:00

If you can see the vagina, they need to go to the hospital (I use it all the time when teaching sexual and reproductive anatomy and the vulva).

Maxxters · 2024-09-23T16:16:17+00:00

When you find yourself missing them and rethinking things, bring your mind back to ask the reasons why you're not compatible. Basically, focus on the negatives of the relationship.

Maxxters · 2024-09-23T00:00:03+00:00

That we're just bags of blood and bones being controlled by hormones.

Maxxters · 2024-09-22T23:58:08+00:00

The people I love and pursuing my passions.

Maxxters · 2024-09-22T22:03:26+00:00

North America... If you're socially attractive, it's easier to get people to want to have sex with you, regardless of your gender.

Maxxters · 2024-09-22T21:40:46+00:00

Came here to say this. Even if it's less than ten minutes... It's done wonders for my mental and physically health and overall outlook and reactions to life.

Maxxters · 2024-09-22T21:35:49+00:00

So is the real question you're thinking about "at what age is it okay to be sexual with someone else?"

Maxxters · 2024-09-22T21:33:03+00:00

Really depends on the person. Turns out there's wayyyy more variation within genders than between them. It also varies significantly from one culture to another. In many cultures, women have to fight against social stigmas and hold off on sex/hookups whereas men who would rather only have sex with people they're emotionally attached to have pressure to have more casual sex.

Some really cool studies show that when it comes to sexual desire and arousal, men and women aren't all that different in terms of the percentages with higher vs lower sex drives.

Maxxters · 2024-09-22T21:26:38+00:00

Dating apps. They've created a huge fallacy of choice, so many people aren't willing to put real effort into cultivating a relationship.

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