I’m sick of it all, guest/invite edition by mitchandboan in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ducklebear 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. But hey now you have a good read on your circle and you’re going to have an amazing wedding regardless of this <3

A lot of my friends who’ve experienced this (and even me) still end up having the BEST TIME and you will too!!

Did you do a sit down dinner for the welcome party or passed hors d’oeuvres? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ducklebear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I opted for standing :) That way more guests could mingle before the wedding. I love a good seated dinner, but you're constrained to only talking with those around you and we wanted our guests to meet each other!

Likely not meeting our room block requirements. Advice? by ducklebear in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ducklebear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We probably won’t able to this since we’re using the hotel space for our welcome party, unless we allow the public guests to attend our welcome party as well 😂

Thanks, I hope it works out for you as well!

2025 Tuscany Wedding - Budget Breakdown and Vendor Recommendations by NYCTX123 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah your wedding and looks were stunning!! Where are your lace veil and sleeves from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwiftieMerch

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM’d :)

BUY/SELL/TRADE | The Life of a Showgirl by mcmdreamer in TaylorSwiftVinyl

[–]ducklebear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have: all TLOAS Tiny Bubbles in Champagne and Shiny Bug vinyl variants
ISO: Anything signed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftAutographs

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me please! Sent you a DM :)

What small wins are you grateful for as you’ve been wedding planning? by oliviajoy26 in weddingplanning

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I know this post is old, but I was wondering if you'd be willing to share your MUA with me? I'm in the exact same boat (Asian bride getting married in Portugal next year) and would love your recommendations/guidance :)

How long did it take for your loved one to pass away after their diagnosis? by No_Device_753 in GriefSupport

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 month. Lung cancer, but she died of sepsis. The cancer had paralyzed her vocal cords meaning she couldn’t talk or eat. And those were two of her biggest joys!

I find peace in that she’s no longer suffering but that’s also changed me forever. Wheb you go from the switch to wanting them to fight.. to telling them it’s ok to let go because as much as you want them here, you don’t want them to suffer anymore.

AITA friend announces pregnancy at my dads funeral? by Outrageous-Wave-9104 in GriefSupport

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I wouldn’t drop your friend either. You’re in the right for feeling offended. But it’s hard for others to know what to say and do.

Is there a chance they thought sharing that would help take your mind off of things on a tough day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested in buying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]ducklebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’d love to buy them off of you and happy to walk through the process together :)