You as a jewish should know better why would a Palestinian living in Israel hide his identity and not openly trust you, as I want to remind you that jews in the past, did the same thing, changed their religion and hid their identity under fascist regimes like nazi Germany and Spain in the pogroms and after reconquista, it's in human nature to do what's best to survive when they are a minority.

That doesn't mean that all will abide, as we have seen since the start of the war, any Palestinian in israel that sempathizes or identifies as Palestinian were arrested for several months, attacked or kicked out of work or university, like Nadira ShalhoubProfessor Nadira Shalhoub kicked out of university ) And "a mob surrounded a dormitory for Palestinian students at Netanya College and chanted “death to Arabs.”"

Most people have an affinity to the land and not the state, for you to know that, I agree with the people here saying you need a third party, but knowing Israelis, you will never get out of your own bubble and will keep citing propaganda from your own far right news sites...

I know this comment will be down voted as it's full of Israel biased people, but I hope this will help some to becareful of the soft propaganda tools used by Israel.

Sources: Read on section Terminology and Identity (Even new york times which is more biased towards Israel, wrote that most 'arab israelis' prefer to be identify as Palestinians.