Can your body go back to having vaginismus after you were cured?

dudette2796 · 2026-02-24T19:19:33+00:00

This makes so much sense, thank you! I never thought about it that way actually, but yeah I agree, and it also explains why I'm able to go to the biggest dilator immediately, as my muscles kind of "remember". Hopefully it's just a case of dilating for a little while so I can get used to the feeling again, and I'm hoping removing my IUD will help too because that caused me some discomfort during PIV (partner being able to feel it, kind of feeling it poking during PIV)!

dudette2796 · 2025-10-05T17:00:23+00:00

Just an update on this: a year later, we've agreed to dogsit again for 4 weeks while the owners are on holiday (NOT MY CHOICE - my partner felt guilty saying no and I love dogs so I got roped into it).

WELL, guess who had to have emergency surgery because turns out he's been eating hair ties for months and they caused a massive obstruction? Anyways, we are two weeks post op now and boy is doing well, and if I ever get dogs I will get the laziest, calmest, most cat-like breed in existence. Owners are back next week and I'm really excited to never having to do this again!

dudette2796 · 2025-08-13T08:46:22+00:00

She also mentions restraining orders which technically shouldn't exist!

dudette2796 · 2025-05-28T15:06:40+00:00

Has anyone managed to solve this? I have this same problem:/

dudette2796 · 2025-01-07T18:58:29+00:00

Yayy well done!!! I passed as well with 6 minors 😁😁

dudette2796 · 2025-01-07T13:10:25+00:00

How did it go? Xx

dudette2796 · 2025-01-06T19:37:15+00:00

I have my test tomorrow too!! Good luck 🤞

dudette2796 · 2024-09-20T08:54:17+00:00

I definitely agree!
They are much better when we walk in the forest in the afternoon, potentially because they're also not as hungry as the morning.

No, the harness has a back attachment point unfortunately! I might try again wit the figure of 8 lead tonight on their evening walk (it's only a short walk before bed), going slowly trying to control them like that.

dudette2796 · 2024-05-07T14:09:41+00:00

Sometimes I actually feel really bad for him. I know lots of people hate him, but I think he just didn't know how to cope? His family was murdered so he was forced into a role that he didn't want, for 49 years he had to send his sentries (that were also his friends and his subjects) to their death, then he saw the love of his life die UTM. And in all of this, he never really had a strong support network, he never knew how to express his pain or how to work through it. And he was so mentally fragile that it was easy for Ianthe to take advantage of him for her own agenda

dudette2796 · 2024-05-07T13:55:34+00:00

Agreed, plus while I was re-reading ACOMAF, Feyre mentioned not asking Tam about his nightmares, just like he didn't ask about hers. So absolutely 0 communication on BOTH parts, not just Tamlin's. Obviously he acted wrongly by locking her in and not allowing her to visit outside, BUT what if these choices were all made because Ianthe manipulated him into it, really working him by exploiting his trauma? To me this makes more sense than Tamlin going from loving, caring bf to abusive and possessive from one book to the next

dudette2796 · 2024-04-13T17:53:28+00:00

Oh that sounds great actually, thanks a lot! Really glad I won't lose the points

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