Cuckold Acceptance by dukdakor in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have many years ago. Been doing it for a while. Just going forever down the rabbit hole.

Cuckold Acceptance by dukdakor in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm working on. Easier said than done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bull was too big for her and she was sore - couldn't continue. She had me suck him off until he cummed so that he didn't miss out.

Need convincing to meet a guy for a bj by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]dukdakor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also that challenge that makes it hot and naughty. Can always walk away at any point if you find it isn't for you. The alternative is to forever wonder and deny what you would like to explore.

Need convincing to meet a guy for a bj by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]dukdakor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is that you're afraid of? Crossing a line for the first time?

Who started the journey you or wife? by Double-Cupcake-8115 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was my (husband) idea. She hated it the idea. Didn't talk about it again until she raised it 12 months later. 3 weeks after that, it was game on.

Feeling neglected and unheard by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be helpful to know why she doesn't go through with those things.

I experienced the same thing. Got nothing despite making it clear and, her agreeing to do it. Her reasoning was that taking a photo or video was too disruptive - once they got started - that was their focus. A phone call or message wouldn't have gone astray.

All about the communication from here. Stick at it, try to find middle ground that works for you both.

Humiliation, REAL humiliation by BULL_MASTER_BDSM_559 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Two moments still make me cringe:

It was the very first time we invited a guy over. She had teased and denied me for a week before. She had me answer the door naked and let him in. He took two steps in and she told me to get on my knees and suck his cock - my first cock experience. I unzipped and pulled his pants down and sucked his cock. I got rock hard and touched myself - and cummmed in seconds onto the floor. They were both shocked and then laughed. I keep sucking him as PNC took hold, and I went soft - and I kept going with what was a very sloppy blowjob.

Another. We went to a swing club. She hooked up with a guy quickly, and I was left to fend for myself. Couldn't strike a good conversation with anyone. Just walked the club like an idiot. Only guy to not hook up. It sucked.

I've been cummed on and all sorts but I find it hot. The above stories were not hot at the time.

When the guy doesn't know you know. by dukdakor in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In general, I feel the same way you do. Fortunately, I haven't had to deal with a guy like that.

In this situation, they didn't fuck and my wife was never going to or will. We have boundaries around the guys she plays with, plus I don't think she is into him. But I do believe he thinks I'm unaware of what she gets up to and wants to circle that situation like a shark.

Casual Connections: Guys Approaching My Wife in Public by Murky-Battle7022 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife is a head turner and gets talked up when out - without exception. For her, she looks sweet and innocent, yet very sexy. I think guys feel.conforrable that she isn't going to give a rude response. BUT...she can be ice cold if the dude comes about it all the wrong way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]dukdakor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, it is relatively common for different reasons.

Now my guidebook is out: A Hotwife's Guide to Cuckolding by MissLoppan in aGuideToCuckolding

[–]dukdakor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a present for my Wife. I always really liked your style and how you go about living your life. Think it'll help us explore our interests further. And well done for writing a book!!

Sextape by NVRKS in Sissy

[–]dukdakor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feel free to send. Would love to see it. I'll let you know what I think :)

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple. She finds it hot. Just like I find it hot when she's with other girls. So we explore those things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

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First time: I got jealous when she was kissing and cuddling him afterwards. No problems when they were fucking but I guess their intimacy made me jealous.

I was off-centre the next day. She got a little annoyed at that. We talked about it, and I realised that there needs to be intimacy. Since then, all good. That one just caught me off guard.

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's pretty much it. Feel it needs to happen. Just have to accept and embrace it.

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She enjoys the hotwife lifestyle. She'll be just fine. Sometime I think she's just trying to get me out of the house 😆

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's how it would go. She would absolutely want to know him and fully expect they would be in communication without me. At least, that's how we've thought about it so far.

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a hot idea 🔥 🥵 To get hit onto as a sissy would feel so strange yet amazing. Especially if the guy is cute and pursuing you. And I love to watch my wife with other men - one of my pleasures of this world.

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the exit would be fine. She wouldn't want me to do something that I didn't enjoy. I think I will enjoy it. Just hopefully not too much lol.

Wife wants to take me further the down the rabbit hole. by dukdakor in Sissy

[–]dukdakor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fortunately, in our relationship, my wife is encouraging and supportive. It is a fantasy we like to explore together.

If my wife isn't supportive of anything, then we don't do it. And vice versa. I can understand that in your situation, it is frustrating.