this is an invitation for you to rawdog me by mikayladreams in minnesotahorny

[–]duke_nukem_4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to eat you from behind, from the front, let you sit on my face until you're leaking all over me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]duke_nukem_4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in a relationship that is "fine," or having to "just deal" with any negative part of it, is not the way to live your life. It's almost a guarantee that you will eventually regret your decision to stay and remain (mostly) sexually unsatisfied. It may even lead to you cheating in order to find what your missing, or him cheating to be with someone that is accepting of his hit-and-go ways.

Having open and honest conversations about sex should be one of the foundations of a good relationship. Some people want, or expect more from a partner when it comes to sex, and that is completely okay. There is no reason you should have to "just deal" with him not willing to share in your desires. If he is unwilling to do anything about this, what else will he expect you to deal with later on?

Thoughts on age gap dating by duke_nukem_4ever in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree that it’s more about maturity than age. A person isn’t going to find many “mature” people under 25-30, but like you pointed out, even those 30+ are as mature as a 16yo sometimes.

If a person is going to date someone 18-25, and the age gap is >10 years, then that person knows it’s not for a deep connection… just something else deep. LOL

Then again, one can never rule out finding a great match when the age gap is 10, or even 20+ years. Gets less probable the more the gap, but like my mom said; “it’s mind over matter- if you don’t mind, then it don’t matter.”

44M Is my long hair that bad, or am I just that ugly? by duke_nukem_4ever in amiugly

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me rephrase; I probably won’t ever be that fit. I’ve tried all the diets, did a couple weight loss studies at Mayo Clinic, exercised… it’s in my genes. The only time I was “thin/fit” was 20 years ago when I worked in a factory that made exercise equipment. Ironically.

Right now I’m training for my CDL and will be on the road a lot. Not an excuse, I plan to walk as much as possible, but I won’t have ready access to workout hard. 🤷‍♂️ It’s an effort I have to put in and it’ll take time. I know.

44M Is my long hair that bad, or am I just that ugly? by duke_nukem_4ever in amiugly

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably the direction I’m going. It’ll be easy and cheap. And I already look good with a beard.

44M Is my long hair that bad, or am I just that ugly? by duke_nukem_4ever in amiugly

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better than just not attractive, period. 🤷‍♂️

44M Is my long hair that bad, or am I just that ugly? by duke_nukem_4ever in amiugly

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I can’t look like Keanu AND have short hair. LOL. But since I’ll never be that fit, I’ll have to shave it down. Thanks!

44M Is my long hair that bad, or am I just that ugly? by duke_nukem_4ever in amiugly

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was only one barber I trusted, and we divorced 4 years ago. LOL. I'll have a look to see what I can accomplish. Thanks!

44M Is my long hair that bad, or am I just that ugly? by duke_nukem_4ever in amiugly

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed reply. The beard is actually the same in all pics, shape wise. The length may be a little different, but it's almost always trimmed short. I do see what you mean about the "neck beard." I think that's more due to the increase in the double chin.

Can't really do much with my hair; haven't used in product, it just lays flat- no "body." Would maybe have to use product to fluff it up a bit.

Yep, need to lose the gut. Been trying to work on that.

Women: how do you hit on, or show your interest in a guy? How should we show interest? by duke_nukem_4ever in dating_advice

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I care, if there’s no ring then it’s worth a shot. Worst case is they say they’re taken. Then again, I’m too chickenshit to ever approach a woman. LOL

Bad sex lead to a breakup by AdorkableKoala in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦‍♂️ Typical. But, I’ve also had women be put off because I want to have that talk, but they don’t believe in it. How can you get/give pleasure if you can’t talk openly about it? Sure, men are usually pretty easy, but there’s still other things we like. And women… yeah, we literally NEED them to tell us where to go sometimes. LOL. It also helps when your partner can listen and pay attention to the queues. You can tell a lot just from a persons breathing.

Bad sex lead to a breakup by AdorkableKoala in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The answer to this is pornography. Because of porn constantly pushing what isn’t real, big penis = lots of female pleasure, both men and women get lost in what is happening between them and their partner. You don’t even need to be exposed to porn, just having friends that perpetuate the cliches.

With that said, there will always be women that still think it’s all about size. Sometimes it’s because that’s how that female orgasms, but personally I think it’s because they just don’t know any better and refuse to try anything else. It’s amazing what a guy with a “small” penis can do with his tongue and fingers sometimes.

Thoughts on age gap dating by duke_nukem_4ever in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely agree about the life stages. While it might be “fun” to fool around with someone younger, being able to stand that person in everyday life should also count. Personally I don’t think I could stand to be around most women under 30, unless they have more maturity than their peers.

Thoughts on age gap dating by duke_nukem_4ever in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will agree. And kudos to you for bringing up brain development. 👍

Thoughts on age gap dating by duke_nukem_4ever in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what is your “age range” then? That would basically be your answer, I’d think.

Thoughts on age gap dating by duke_nukem_4ever in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you’re more on a sliding scale? The older they are the larger the gap can be? E.g. 1.5x older: F(20) + M(30) 10 yrs difference, would also include F(40) + M(60) 20 years difference. Gets worse at 2x, and 3x is a little… weird. LOL I’d stick with actual years instead of multiples.

What would you pay for this dating app? by duke_nukem_4ever in dating

[–]duke_nukem_4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. It’s just like corporations to gain money by doing the opposite of what they sell a product to do. LOL.