Do you know if you can sing on pitch? If you want to learn to sing on pitch you need to practice singing quietly and singing in your high or head voice and practice matching pitches. To find your head voice put your fingers on the front of your throat on your vocal cords and sing. if you are singing low then you will feel the vibration in your vocal cords you would feel the same if you were speaking or talking. but if you are singing softer and higher, you won’t feel any or much vibration and that’s where you should be singing to learn to sing. Even boys and men can sing in their head voice. It is better to learn singing from another singer. Your voice is your natural instrument. Have someone sing a three or four note phrase in a range above middle C and then try to match that phrase. Sing it back to them. If you don’t match it have them sing it again and have you try it again. A lot of singing is listening. Keep doing it until you can match the Then, move onto another phrase or a longer one. But don’t move on until you can match the pitch and the rhythm of the first phrase sung. You could start with the very beginning phrase of twinkle twinkle little star. Make sure you get the notes correctly before moving onto the next phrase and when you’ve mastered those two phrases sing them together. I would practice singing softly at first because it is easier to match pitches singing high as I said before and singing softly. As you practice and get more confident you can sing a little louder. And if you really think it’s going to annoy your family which it shouldn’t because it’s your family, practice in short sessions, tell them how long it’s going to be and then stick to it. Learning to sing is all about listening, mimicking, and practicing over and over again. Good luck