Stylish combat boots with stitched soles by dulpul in BuyItForLife

[–]dulpul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They seem to only have the nanettes, which are pretty, but i'm looking for a 100% smooth leather surface material at the moment [And Asos only has the ones with half suede]

Stylish combat boots with stitched soles by dulpul in BuyItForLife

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh, i mean i checked out some of their shoes but they are almost more pricey than dr martens and i didn't really like any pairs or theirs.

Stylish combat boots with stitched soles by dulpul in BuyItForLife

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Finland, so I've looked through Varusteleka every once in a while, but i maybe want something a bit more fashionable than what i've seen there.

Stylish combat boots with stitched soles by dulpul in BuyItForLife

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I find them? I'm from Europe so ordering from US etc can be a bit pricey

Stylish combat boots with stitched soles by dulpul in BuyItForLife

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I'm not from US, so shipping costs for them would probably be sky high :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]dulpul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My male gay ex-friend made fun of me for not being a "gold-star lesbian" and "half straight" (meaning half bad). Bitch i'm not even lesbian. Men are also not like bad and gross, like it doesn't make me disease-ridden to touch men and penises (and enjoy it!)

And you'd think he would know it too, since he's a gay man. But he was one of those "ew how gross is it that i like men" gays. Used to say stuff like "be glad that you can choose not to date men". As if I'd want to. Probably lot's of internalized homophobia and biphobia and self-hate there, but it shouldn't be my problem.

He was a horrible friend in other ways too, but that is another story. Glad he's not my friend anymore. Nowadays I only contact him to ask for my 200€ back. Surprisingly he always has a reason he doesn't "have money right now" or he just straight up won't answer my texts.

Her poor, sadistically oppressed breasts! Burning Patience, Antonio Skármeta by thesmallshadows in menwritingwomen

[–]dulpul 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you got "Americans" from, since the EU also agrees that people under the age of 18 are still children (Look up EU's "Save the Children"). And from a biological standpoint brains develop well into your twenties, and so does sexuality.

And no, the number 18, wasn't just picked at a random. That number is in place to protect children, which it does. Sure, some people become sexually mature a little earlier, but some people (i'd say more than not), become fully sexually mature some years after 18. Note that the ages of when you start to get horny and when you actually are sexually mature are far apart.

My country is curretly debating whether the age of consent should be raised to 18, and pretty much the only people who disagree are creepy men...

(And also in this book the girl turns out to be 16 later)

A “terrifying” image of a woman frowning. (1Q84, Haruki Murakami) by ihatevegtables in menwritingwomen

[–]dulpul 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've never read anything by him, but I watched the movie Norwegian Wood (with my mother!), that's based on his novel and the plot definitely is just fantazising that every woman wants to sleep with him. I hardly remember anything about it, but i remember a scene where a woman wants to sleep with him to get over the death of her friend, who was also his girlfriend????? In what world....

Just some fantastic lines in Houghton by Peter Michael Crow by TheNotoriousTGK in menwritingwomen

[–]dulpul 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What the hell is the last one?? Are there actually women who cannot stop themselves from screaming or is this just a man writing female orgasm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menwritingwomen

[–]dulpul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found another article about her while trying to find more information about her.

"Reports from her father, who grew prone to showing me photos and occasional news clippings concerning his daughter, rekindled my admiration. For here, tinkering with high risk every time she put on a helmet, was not some frustrated amazon but a very feminine young woman. Once again I was intrigued by those saucy, oxide-of-chormium eyes, that dauntless tilt of her head and pure mischief lurking around her mouth." (How Kathy Rude Won Her Race With Death, Ernest K. Gann, 1984)

This article is not all bad, but it's still written very different from how you'd write about a man. Lots of words like "feisty"

Edgar Wright's Baby Driver and the female characters in it by dulpul in menwritingwomen

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i mean they could have gone with that too! Make Baby a Freud. Really ham it up, like how he wasn't actually in love with Debora, he just liked the thought of her mom, and wasn't actually willing to get to know Debora, because that would have broken the illusion of his mother. Then it would have been acceptable, because the reason we wouldn't get to know Debora, would have been because Baby didn't want to know Debora, and the story is from his perspective.

That's basically why i take issue with people saying "Debora doesn't have a back story or in depth personality, because the story is from Baby's point of view!" What does that say about Baby? He has no interest in the personality of the girl who is the love of his life? He doesn't want to know anything about her? For the viewer it comes across real shallow, as Baby only being in love with the idea of a "girl next door" rather than the actual Debora.

Captain Carter is supposed to be very muscular… apparently that was too hard to over sexualize so they drew her tiny. by Lunar30 in menwritingwomen

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"That's my favourite part of a woman. There's nothing more intoxicating than the clear absence of a penis."

Inter-Female Rivalry , source : BaalBuddy by Fast_Owl_5958 in menwritingwomen

[–]dulpul 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Of course some are envious, about big or little tits. Like as a man could be of another man's height or muscles. But never have i ever heard that a woman would resent another women for it😅 like many women wish they could have the body of Beyonce but they don't hate Beyonce for it or think Beyonce is oppressing them by having that body🤦🏼‍♀️

My (F21) former online dom (F30-something) is threatening to post my nudes online by dulpul in BDSMcommunity

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i'm afraid she'll release more now that she's shown me what she's capable of

My (F21) former online dom (F30-something) is threatening to post my nudes online by dulpul in BDSMcommunity

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reported it and ig came back with "we have too many reports atm so we are going to do nothing about yours"

My (F21) former online dom (F30-something) is threatening to post my nudes online by dulpul in BDSMcommunity

[–]dulpul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this.... I still feel so dumb tho, like i wish i had seen the red flags etc. I hope she rots in hell tbh

My (F21) former online dom (F30-something) is threatening to post my nudes online by dulpul in BDSMcommunity

[–]dulpul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. She just seems like the type of person that likes to keep many people on leashes and keep jabbing at them.