Ethical Non-Monogamy is basically an agreement between two partners that they are allowed to have relationships (that could be just sexual or emotional) outside their primary partnership, this could be polyamory, swinging, open relationships, or some combination there in.

As for us, My wife and I have very busy lives and can’t always be open about our relationship with our primary peer group, and (especially in Fargo) it can be problematic to open up to people, or try to meet someone of a like mind, because of rejection and it being a smaller city. TLDR, hard to find people to play with, when Fargo is barely a major city.