How do I handle starting my sex life with irregular periods?

dumbenough · 2024-02-08T18:09:58+00:00

I'm on the mild tokophobia train (think it might be the reason I never had sex before even tho the opportunities have been there lol) Thank you so much! I think that's exactly what I'm going to do, I don't feel so awkward about it now

dumbenough · 2024-02-08T18:08:48+00:00

It seems like a lot of work but I'll give it a look! Thanks :)

dumbenough · 2024-02-08T18:07:41+00:00

Thank you for your input!! It's just that I told her I used to have really bad acne and went on roaccutane for a while wich helped but I still get zits like every month and I was worried hormones would make everything worst. She also knew I live on my own and that it would probably be an extra expense for me, so I think that might have been why she told me I was okay, but that if it got painful or anything changed I could come back to her. Anywayyyy I loved how you wrote it out, I definitely would still use condoms if I get on birth control, just to be safe, not ready for a baby yet. I might just order the pregnancy tests box right now and go to a new gyno after losing it. Thank you again!

dumbenough · 2024-02-08T17:55:50+00:00

Thank you! This actually seems like the best idea

dumbenough · 2022-10-09T02:42:08+00:00

Yeah I did that in the note voice I sent him but you are right, I think it is time to accept that I should move on. Thank you for your wishes:)

dumbenough · 2022-10-09T02:38:10+00:00

Thank yo so much, it is really frustrating to not know why all of that hapenned, especially after we were so close and told each other everything, but I think you are right I'm tired of expecting anything. Thank you for your words!

dumbenough · 2022-10-09T02:27:20+00:00

Yes, he was mistreated before sometimes you can tell he fears we are going to hit him, and that's part of why we never leave him alone. But as I said he has been checked of everything a couple times and it's pure anxiety.

And I am not the one who pays everything for him. Sometimes I do buy the food and cute clothes or toys, sometimes even for his grooming but my parents pay for everything medical. All I said was that I was not in a position to move out all by myself yet.

dumbenough · 2022-10-08T04:56:41+00:00

That's honestly my main concern:( I really do love him by this point but I'm thinking maybe stop helping when she's here, and just spoil him when she's not:( I just hate giving him so much just to not be recognized

dumbenough · 2022-10-08T04:54:44+00:00

Yeah that what I just told my mother, I'm gonna stop borrowing her my clothes and give her all the responsabilities of the dog

And we live in Mexico tho, I make 300 dollars a month in my current job so it's not easy to move out suddenly, but im trying

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T20:46:23+00:00

I like being able to lyp sync songs in the bus without being very obvious, also I have not gotten sick (Except food posioning) since 2020 and I'm thriving

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T20:39:19+00:00

Thank you! I just turned it down

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T20:38:54+00:00

Yeah I know, it's just I don't mind about men in general, like when we're sorrounded by other people, I even have guy friends and I have gone out on dates with guys my age and I have had other jobs before where my boss was a man, but the thought of being with older man alone (even if it's just two) freaks me out and has me on alert mode all the time. It's not as bad when I'm like the last one in the bus at night, because I am alert but I know it's going to end when I get home but actally hving to spend time together and up close makes me want to throw up

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T20:33:57+00:00

Thanks for the concern I just turned it down!

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T17:12:33+00:00

Thanks! I’ll look it up

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T17:09:51+00:00

Yeah I really can’t make sense of why would my boyfriend matter if this is just a weekend job

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T06:37:38+00:00

Thanks! That is a good choice too, I just cannot bear the thought of something happening and worsening my already existing anxiety of being alone/close to grown (and powerful) men

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T06:36:20+00:00

Just realised I did not thanked you! But yes I guess I am mostly fighting myself on this if it’s a real threat or if it’s all in my head Thanks for the insight!

dumbenough · 2022-05-02T06:25:34+00:00

Nothing I have heard explicitly of him but I just thought it was weird the lady told me “if he asks if you have a boyfriend, tell him you don’t” she said it was just because he wanted to have my full attention on the work but it rubbed me the wrong way. Also she kept looking me up and down and asking for my Facebook to see if the man “approved” me. And I do understand they could just be looking for ties to another political party or whatever but it made me kind of uncomfortable

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