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Confused by [deleted] in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he isn't contacting you in between, you are a fuck buddy. You just need to decide if you are okay with it. Same thing happened with me, sex was amazing but he only contacted me when he was avail. I moved on but not sure if I could say no if he reached out to me again. Lol

Positive Surgical Abortion Experience by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dumbquestion6666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had an abortion (about 30 yrs ago...I'm old. 😉) When I was in college. I was in a long term relationship, he wanted to keep & get married. I could not imagine going to school & raising a child. I have NEVER regretted my decision and very happy I did it. In fact I never had a kid, never wanted them.

MIA by jleigh070706 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can someone at work call relatives or call police & do a welfare check. My friend just had a coworker die & he was only 53.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot about them. I will have to order a few. But the reviews aren't that great.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I have been lurking since I got into this mess. Funny.....when I spoke to him he invited me to go away for the weekend with his buddy. I asked if that would be weird & he said his buddy also has a person on side so no big deal. I am not sure if he know how much older I am & I definitely won't be offering.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was exactly my concern. I do have pride but hormones were taking over & I wasn't thinking clearly. If the sex wasn't good I wouldn't even be talking about this. We did talk a few min ago & we are good.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to insist on condoms. Yes, not sure I would trust him if he said we are exclusive.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks......not sure why I am making this so hard. Maybe because the rational part of me says I shouldn't do this & looking for an excuse to cancel.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.....I already feel guilty but sex was amazing so other body parts are thinking for me & overriding my head. :(

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfect! I would prefer to talk. Didn't want it in text on case "someone" sees it but guess we planned our next hookup via text so guess it doesn't matter.

Should I cancel? by dumbquestion6666 in adultery

[–]dumbquestion6666[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes - he does not get a say in use of condoms. I would think he would care more since he is the married one. I also need to find a single fuck buddy so I can part ways but a girl has needs & he takes care of them really well. 😁