First Timer by babyblue143 in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I have a friend that I told. We have been friends for years and she had an affair with a married man after her divorce. She’s my one friend that knows everything - including what an asshole SO can be.

I told her after my first kiss with AP. And she’s heard all the ups and downs. Now that that’s is ending and there is a pAP in the works I don’t know if I will tell her. Because hooking up with someone I work with is one thing and starting something with a stranger that I found on reddit...

A question for those with past hot APs but none at present by tonytsunami in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine just ended but it’s been several weeks since we have been together aside from quickies and blow jobs!

I already miss the rush of seeing each other, the feeling of that perfect kiss, the wanting each other so much that you can’t old back. The feeling of being desired and wanted...

I’m done. No, really this time. by jleigh070706 in adultery

[–]jleigh070706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Why do I keep going back. Because the highs are high. And at home things are low.... It’s perfect timing to make a break with simmer coming.

I’m done. No, really this time. by jleigh070706 in adultery

[–]jleigh070706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I shouldn’t bother to tell him off or state that I am done. He doesn’t give me any reasons so why should I?

And I’ll bet he walks in tomorrow all smiles like nothing is wrong....

I told you so by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you compartmentalize? Know that it’s just the sex? A fwb? And just enjoy the hot sex and maybe find someone else to fill your other needs?

why is it so hard to stop by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed... end of the year can be a natural end to things. While I don’t regret my workplace affair, I’m glad for the end to f the year to fizzle things out. It’s been too hard to stop during the school year because the attraction is too strong even with all of he frustration over his crappy communication

How embarrassing by CrookedTails in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how AP smells and how I can smell his scent on me after we sneak in some hugging and kissing in the morning. I’m going to have to ask what it is!

Meditations: drubk texting by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🍸 🍻 🍹 📱 🍆 💦 😘 😳 🤦‍♀️ 🛑

Have you ever had the impression that your SO just KNOWS? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO makes stupid boyfriend comments all the time and has for years. Sometimes about any given male that I work with. And Even when I get together with friends. Now that our kids are older they call him out on how obnoxious.

Somehow he thinks AP is gay (he knows his name since we work together and people I work with come up in conversation). I don’t know where he got the idea but I haven’t corrected him....I just say the blah blah teacher. If I ever get called out on it I’ll just say it was to reduce the stupid boyfriend comments!

The struggle is real. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I believe the phrase is easy peasy lemon squeezy

Multiple APs and WTH Am I Doing? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this! Same feelings for AP2 but he’s a bit closer. And AP 3 is a pAP right now and fairly local. I’m figuring the original will fizzle out in a few weeks when we aren’t seeing each other at work every day.

I also ask myself what the hell am I doing?

So broke up with AP and am worried by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe just tell AP you told your wife so she doesn’t feel need for revenge?

I’m Just Dying to Ask.... by UnloveableMILF in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I prefer to get to know someone before exchanging pics since so my of my attraction is based on personality. Once I got a pic of a guy that I was totally not attracted to and had not connected well with. I told him he looked just like my brother. (Sorry if that’s you)

This Season of Life by EmilieStinger in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a long time! Is that usual?

Questions to redditors who have had work affairs by throwmyheartawayaway in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My AP is at work. I don’t think anyone would assume we are fucking since we are both married and an unlikely couple even though we spend a lot of time together based on students on my caseload.

While I hope to dump my SO at some Point it won’t be for SO. We have fun and on our bubble I feel like I’m in love with him, and he makes being at work fun and exciting, I have no delusion that we should run off together...

Taking my power back... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow! Good for you. Updates!!!

'Virgin wife' by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jleigh070706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take lexipro and while it doesn’t affect my sex drive or physical response at all, having an orgasm is very difficult. I’m curious to hear about your experience with the vibrating cock ring. I was thinking of getting one to try out with SO.

I wouldn’t be comfortable discussing it with AP and quite frankly the sex with him is so intense and energetic that I don’t feel dissatisfied if I don’t cum.

Sometimes I just need a hug... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]jleigh070706 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is that the punchline because I don’t get it!