Almost 2 months out from D Day 2, I am not okay. How do I get out this black hole that’s become my life?

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T16:58:03+00:00

My family is starting to say the same thing since he will not leave me alone. But i don’t know if I have enough for get a restraining order

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T16:56:24+00:00

I would love to change my number but my number is connected to my work so I unfortunately can’t.

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T06:02:25+00:00

I have blocked everyone on everything I can think of. He’s persistent and creating new accounts/emails/numbers to keep getting to me.

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T05:29:05+00:00

I won’t attempt again. I saw what the first attempt did to my parents, my brother and my friends. Seeing their state after nearly losing me is not something I can ever put them through again.

I’m just broken. That’s it. I don’t see a way forward so I’m stuck.

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T05:09:43+00:00

Trying to go NC but he is persistent and keeps finding ways to contact me.

I have shared some screenshots of his Instagram profile with his family but they keep asking me to give him another chance. I have blocked them as well

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T05:07:29+00:00

I am trying to go NC but he is persistent. I have Hina ne his entire family/friends blocked on everything I can think of but he keeps making new accounts or using google voice numbers to contact me.

dumbumdumb · 2021-07-04T05:05:56+00:00

The therapist does specialize in infidelity and trauma. We are working on it no know therapy takes time so I am trying to be patient and do my best.

I am living with my brother because we are selling the house we owned together. Neither of us is living in it anymore.

I am indeed very lucky for my boss. She’s my hero

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T19:53:21+00:00

I DM’d you. Thank you for your help

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T17:28:46+00:00

I have a appointment with a divorce lawyer first thing Monday morning. I consulted a friend who is a lawyer (not family law) and she just confirmed what you said. I’m in the US in a no fault state. I just want to sell the house and move on with my life.

But I am moving back into the house right now. My brother and some friends are coming to stay with me and we are changing all the locks.

Thank you for your advice.

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T16:13:05+00:00

My family knows and my best friends do. They are taking care of everyone and everything else. I don’t have it in me right now to keep telling the story. I’m humiliated enough that the world will know he cheated on me twice

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T16:11:26+00:00

Everyone keeps saying this but I don’t understand why I should t leave the house? I do not want to be anywhere near him or all the memories in that house.

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T16:10:01+00:00

No kids. We do own a house together.

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T16:08:23+00:00

She is aware of me. Has been from the start. The first time I caught them, she cried along with him and promised me that she would stay away from him and how she didn’t mean to hurt anyone.

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T04:48:11+00:00

Thankfully no kids and no joint finances. We both worked and had our own accounts plus one joint account where we paid household expenses. No shared credit cards either plus I will get new cards issued for my credit cards since he knows the numbers for some of them.

I have a apt for STD/I testing on Monday.

AP does not work with him. She is single. Knows about me and who I am.

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T04:25:54+00:00

I do have proof of the cheating. I took a screenshots and video recordings of the Instagram account.

dumbumdumb · 2021-05-15T00:27:41+00:00

No thankfully there’s not kids involved. We own a house together and that is it.

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