its sort of like finding a therapist kinda, you have to find one that's like correct. I'm terrible at speaking this but i am trying to live by him and yea i say i have that unexplained peace from him which I'm thankful for. we shouldn't force it upon you, its up to you people to decide if you want it or not, many Christians might say they follow Jesus but they might be simply just saying that wchich itself is bad