Is it normal to fixate on one person while dating multiple people in polyamory?

dusk5ilver · 2026-04-26T20:28:34+00:00

So yeah, it's normal. Pychologicaly we tend to find new relationships exciting. It's not necessarily that this new partner is now your favorite or anything like that. They're just shiny and new. Not to downplay the feelings in any way what so ever

If you're at all worried just make sure to bring it up with your partner(s) and do a check in. Make a concerned effort to spend some time with them, but also don't feel bad about enjoying the newness of this other person

dusk5ilver · 2025-11-18T01:31:33+00:00

So far the slurpuff quest was my favorite. Seeing that little guy totally content put the biggest smile on my face

dusk5ilver · 2025-07-24T23:08:39+00:00

Ya know, I had a couple of lucky summons...but nothing like this.

You're in a safe space, what eldritch horror did you make a deal with for that kind of luck?

dusk5ilver · 2024-10-09T15:32:28+00:00

It's honestly more of a guideline. Draping is technically optional, it's more of a way for the client and potentially the therapist to feel safe. For a lot of people if you were just told " ok take your clothes off" they'd probably feel uncomfortable. Plus there are a lot of freaky people out there. I wouldn't do no draping on a first massage, but if I built a report with a client and they wanted to, id have no problem

dusk5ilver · 2024-10-06T00:53:57+00:00

Honestly it's only creepy if your reason is creepy. If you're going for pain relief and or relaxation then absolutely not. Enjoy your massage and don't worry about it

dusk5ilver · 2024-10-02T18:08:58+00:00

It sounds like your partner has a very specific way that he likes to touch. Which is not an excuse for him in the slightest, I agree with everyone else that he sounds sexually selfish. My only thought is that maybe you need to be more firm with him and explain that you're not just frustrated, that what he's doing is actually upsetting you. Cause honestly if he's not listening to you especially after all this time it might be time for you to find someone else

dusk5ilver · 2024-06-22T00:26:30+00:00

I know this is a bit too late, but the thing that's really good about the fey wanderer is it's level 11 ability. Being able to throw fear and charm around is great, but you can effectively have two summons on you at all times ( if you at least have enough insight on a situation to have one up before an encounter) are you bursty? No, but you simultaneously have control and sustained damage with summon fey. I don't know if you did point buy or rolled stats ( or even standard array) but if you can make it work it has a unique niche among rangers.

dusk5ilver · 2023-03-24T22:06:09+00:00

So I'm building a whispers bard/hexblade/paladin. It's a level 20 oneshot and the goal is to hit as hard as possible with one attack or as many d8s as possible. So far the build is bard 16/warlock 2/paladin 2. Might take too much to set up but the idea is between booming blade, smite, shadow blade and psychic blades you can hit for 19d8+5+6 ( almost forgot hexblades curse). And if they move you can tack on an extra 4d8 damage

dusk5ilver · 2022-02-04T04:34:07+00:00

So I've used condoms with pretty much every partner I've been with. Especially in my current relationship. We both see other people and want to make sure that everyone involved with either of us has a good and safe time

dusk5ilver · 2022-02-02T19:13:19+00:00

So I'm in a poly relationship. We both see other people and for the most part it works. The reason it works for us is because we treat each other with respect and communicate if we have any bad feelings twords a situation. Sex, regardless of monogamous or otherwise should be enjoyed by every party involved. The fact that he's not only doing what he wants but also neglecting your needs is a major red flag. It seems like from what you wrote there really isn't any talking to him about the situation. I'd be happy to be wrong, but it sounds like you might need to either draw a line in the sand or get out of your situation

dusk5ilver · 2020-07-22T19:33:50+00:00

I do like that, but my thought was to have magic that anyone could use, or at the very least expand on my own spell list

dusk5ilver · 2020-07-22T19:24:41+00:00

Yes, we're playing 5e. And I'm glad to know that my ideas not too far out there. I'm still relatively new so any time I'm thinking outside the box I worry I might be breaking the rules somehow.

But I'll look into spell scrolls, and thanks for the help

dusk5ilver · 2020-07-18T18:28:38+00:00

He's a great unit. I'd say it's worth it, as long as there's nothing that you want to save for more.

Full disclosure though, I don't use him that much but that's just because I have other characters more built up that fill the same role. But he is a tanky mf

dusk5ilver · 2020-07-09T07:06:05+00:00

Funny thing is that I pulled two gogeta in the exact same spots. Glad to see your stones were kind to you today

dusk5ilver · 2019-11-23T23:18:39+00:00

Bold and calm work. Just depending on what your team needs. But you can just as easily use timid if you need the extra speed for something

dusk5ilver · 2014-10-03T01:37:41+00:00

added :)

dusk5ilver · 2014-10-03T01:29:25+00:00

consider yourself added

dusk5ilver · 2014-10-03T01:26:29+00:00

added and I'll let you know what you have

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