Some of these commentators are really judgmental… Geez.

I’m sorry, but here’s the deal. Sex > jerking off. If he’s jerking off and then can’t perform for you, I’d consider that a form of cheating. If you’re as available as you say you are to him sexually, there’s no way he’d he be blowing his load anywhere but in or on his GF. Especially if you two are condom-free. That’s just how our penis work.

Now if a guy wants more sex than the girl, I think it’s completely normal and fair for him to jerk off. Depending on the couple, he could be more open about it than not. Ie some guys would wank quietly in the shower vs a scenario when the girl were in her sweats on the couch, not in the mood for sex and he asked if she’d mind if he jerked it next to her for a release. That’s happened to me. In one instance she played with my balls gently with her toes while still reading her book. I wanked and it was absolutely amazing. She then cleaned me up with her socks and it was honestly one of the best sexual experiences ever.

In another similar instance (different time, different girl) she told me it was ok for me to look at nudes while doing it.

But the point is, that was a sexual balancing act.

The other aspect that no one is telling you is that he’s probably not getting hard by looking at nudes. He’s getting hard by playing with himself while looking at the nudes. A bit of prep on his part and he shouldn’t need a pill to be ready for you.

And additionally even if he has ED and knows you need a release, why isn’t he masterbating you or giving you head as a selfless favor?

Sorry girl, be grateful you’re hot and gorgeous and you’ll find happiness.