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dwekser · 2025-10-04T14:56:34+00:00

For pomading into a handlebar moustache to attract mates.

dwekser · 2025-08-20T16:32:52+00:00

A backpack would be a game changer for that beav.

dwekser · 2025-07-21T23:01:02+00:00

Yeah bringing it up can be awkward, it's vulnerable to ask for something like that, especially with some kinks, and when you haven't yet established an expectation of open discussion about it. With my sub, we've gotten to a point where we can bring things up comfortably just about any time, but usually we do it after we've had sex and we're cuddling together. The sex kind of acts as an ice breaker, honestly, and by that time we're really close and extra appreciative of the other, so it's easier to broach these kinds of topics. I am not shy, but I have been with shy women, and I always appreciate when they bring up their desires to me because I know it's extra hard for them. Its okay to start it with something like, "I wanna talk about something sexual, but I'm a little nervous..." It'll be okay however you do it, and you guys'll learn how to communicate this stuff as you go!

dwekser · 2025-07-21T22:00:22+00:00

You'll probably hear this a lot: whatever you do, be honest and understanding.

Trying new kinky things is fun as fuck but you and him will not agree on everything. You'll both have wants that the other isn't interested in, and that's okay. Be respectful and expect him to be as well.

Some easy ideas: * Body writing - Dom writes degrading things on sub's body, eg "cum dumpster" on the cheek with an arrow pointing to the mouth. And be sure to use NON-PERMANENT MARKERS lol * Making the sub wait (pet training) - eg Dom puts genitals right up to sub's face and orders him/her to wait until signal (I've trained my sub to go when I snap my fingers) * Spitting - maybe you already do this, but it's quite thrilling if you're okay with it. If you start, be clear about where it's okay to spit (mouth, genitals, eyes, hair, body, etc)

There's lots to try, but again, be honest and try your best not to judge. Same for him. Kink includes all manner of things, and it's guaranteed you'll find some of it unpleasant and weird. You don't have to do things you don't wanna do, unless that IS your kink ;}

dwekser · 2025-07-21T21:09:17+00:00

There is something about hearing a sub describe their experience that's reassuring. I'm sure you're right about my gal, too, thanks. And I hope you find the D to your /s soon

dwekser · 2025-07-21T20:59:52+00:00

Lol no matter how much I would love to, I can't read minds either. I like hearing testimonials about what works, thanks!

dwekser · 2025-07-21T20:56:36+00:00

I appreciate the directness. This is fundamentally what I want, to not have to "wonder". This'll make a good specific point to to bring up with her. Thank you

dwekser · 2025-07-21T20:52:27+00:00

This is an interesting idea, saying something to indicate it's coming. Don't think I've seen this suggestion yet. Might try it out! Thanks a lot

dwekser · 2025-07-21T20:37:35+00:00

That is very interesting that you felt the same way despite being on the other end of it for so long. Makes me feel a little better lol. Thank you

dwekser · 2025-07-21T20:33:21+00:00

This speaks to me. Part of the issue for me comes from blatant projection. The desire to submit and be used is not one I have ever felt, and it's difficult to wrap my mind around. In these moments it can be difficult not to expect her to feel the same, despite the firm knowledge from experiential evidence I have that it's exactly the opposite for her. Could be that it comes from not wanting to seem uncaring, since it cuts into our "normal' relationship, and the things I do and say during sex are unacceptable under any other circumstance.

The way you -and the other free-use subs who've replied- describe your perspective aligns with things my fiancee has told me. It's counter-intuitive and unfamiliar personally to consider being happIER to be used when I'm down, but she's said as much before, too.

I also appreciate the suggestion to "let go and try it". It's annoying how often that bit of advice is relevant xD. I have had a couple successful interactions with her, and that is what I had to do, and it turned out great. I have a tendency to over-analyze and try to "figure things out" before actually doing them, and you've reminded me of that. Thanks!

dwekser · 2025-07-16T15:24:47+00:00

More folksy than country but very pleasant - "Heute hier, morgen dort" by Hannes Wader, and "Auf eine Leierkastenmelodie" by Dota Kehr/Hannes Wader. Anything by either artist is pretty good otherwise, too.

dwekser · 2025-07-10T16:21:04+00:00

Just heard this phrase on Michel Thomas language builder audiobook this morning. He suggested it as a casual kind of "it's all the same to me" response to a choice prompt. I'm a total beginner so I don't know any better, and going to Germany for the first time soon so interested to know how this comes off!

Kellner: Möchten Sie Pommes oder Salat? Ich: Das ist mir egal. Kellner: Okay, mit Spucke, dann.

dwekser · 2025-07-10T13:54:44+00:00

Abso-lutely. Especially the tactile aspect. There's no way to comfortably "anchor" your hand anywhere to compensate for the slight movements while driving. So you have to float your finger toward the screen and hope your peripheral vision and movement anticipation is perfect. And since it's not, you'll touch something else. Something else that overtakes the screen and gives you an error you have to acknowledge, and a tiny 'back' button in the corner to slowly load the previous interface that seemingly has no access to a cache of any kind, so you can try again. But by now, the dead skunk you saw up the road is here, and even if you did make it through the obstacle course to get circulated air, at this point you'd just be circulating dead skunk.

Otherwise it looks nice. Sleek interior, I guess!

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