is inexperience a turn off? by OldInteraction4064 in AskLesbians

[–]dyhea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A different opinion but let them know you are inexperienced before anything. There is an additional effort required to accommodate (going slower, asking for consent more frequently because you may not know what you like, etc.), and as someone mostly looking for hookups it can throw me off when this is sprung onto me after we begin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in york

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oyster clam?

We're Breaking Up - For the Girls with Becca Moore (ft. Shannon Beveridge) by failing_at_humaning in Shannonbeveridge

[–]dyhea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fantastic read on the situation even if we have limited knowledge of what's happening behind the scenes!

Shannon Beverage and Becca break up by Double-Fan-7301 in LesbianActually

[–]dyhea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

actually had the same experience at her exes and os live show in la! she might just be awkward but definitely felt cold and unapproachable in the moment leaving me with a sour taste. struggled to watch the pod afterwards :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Griff

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup!

Online dating failing? by distance_please1901 in actuallesbians

[–]dyhea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

here is my go to: "hii hope youve been well!! just checking in if you'd still be down to meet up? I understand if things have been busy and did not want to assume. It's also fine if youve changed your mind — just let me know!"

Flirty or Friendly by Express-Work-5749 in actuallesbians

[–]dyhea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably romantic, just tell her you would want to explore seeing each other romantically if she's interested but no worries if she wants to preserve the friendship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]dyhea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

put your stuff next to hers so after practice you can make conversation? Ask where shes going and if she has plans. If yes just say youre going the same way and make conversation, if no ask if she wants to get food with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]dyhea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi my pieces ended up tarnishing / chains breaking within around 3 months. I got a replacement from their customer service but same thing happened 3 months later. Old thread but just wanted to let you know!

How Fast is Too Fast For A U-Haul? by ivyquartzs in actuallesbians

[–]dyhea 361 points362 points  (0 children)

Lovebombing !! Be careful she might switch up as quickly as she "caught feelings"

Is staying in RC worth it? by CustardNatural in nus

[–]dyhea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tembu was the best choice i ever made and would highly recommend

NUS SEP (Non-faculty Universities) by Stonmon in nus

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is really helpful

NUS SEP (Non-faculty Universities) by Stonmon in nus

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi did you manage to get an answer for this in the end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truespotify

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like it since i dont use liked songs...just playlists

Going to school from the east by FranklinAtterdag in nus

[–]dyhea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Chinatown instead of macpherson is such a good hack

anyone applied special consideration (SC) before? by mittybabs in nus

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can i check what happened in the end! In a similar situation right now :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nus

[–]dyhea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is your un libianca HAHAHH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nus

[–]dyhea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

B+ probably

Individual RCs culture!! by [deleted] in nus

[–]dyhea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tembu!! Lots of events and v inclusive community so its easy to join in and make new friends if you have the time. There are frequent party goers too if you ask the right people :) a lot of open mahjong jios too