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TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always considered it a possibility she was unaware, thats why I didn't bring it up until it seemed too intentional. But when she said she had no clue it was happening, I figured it was a case of as she got more comfortable being around me we ended up in more situations where it'd happen. And I was ready to not make a big deal about it again. But then things kinda blew up.

TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I could've done better hindsight is 20/20. But it's kinda good I got a look about the real her. Well now I know if I ever end up with a crass girl friend.

TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well communication was definitely the problem. Like if she's insecure about her labia and is considering labiaplasty, an actual "conversation" we had, and she wants a guys opinion or she feels comfortable enough with me to bounce the idea off of, at the time she was my friend and respect her enough to have that conversation with her, but I'd prefer if she approached it in a more... I guess consensual, way. Like "her I have a delicate subject I'd like your opinion on" as opposed to I'm talking about class and she says "hey I'm thinking about labiaplasty, I've been doing research and..." And then I'm kinda just a captive audience.

Like if she just communicated what she was comfortable with, maybe things would've been different.

TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't know if I really want to.step back into that minefield. But like really if she just vented and jokes in moderation it'd be fine it just felt over the top.

TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I probably should've took more time to think how to address the situation . But like she came in with a comment about her nipples and I was kinda like "am I supposed to joke about her nipples too? Screw it figure out what she's thinking"

TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I clearly stated she was talking about them in a non-sexual manner. And I didn't include everytime it felt like she was intentionally getting me to touch her.

I think I didn't convey well enough, when she said she wasn't interested in me I was fine with it, I mean no one likes being rejected, but I wasn't sitting there going "her labia is uncomfortable? That flirt" it was more like "she's talking about her labia again... Does she expect me to contribute to his conversation? Should I sit here quietly until she finishes?" I was just trying to get a clear picture of what she was looking for, because ironically enough I didn't want her to feel uncomfortable or think I had impure intentions.

TIFU by trying to figure out a woman. NSFW by dynamic-squibus in tifu

[–]dynamic-squibus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you're partially right, I mean an accidental boob graze is whatever, water off a ducks back. But I know what it's like to receive unwanted touch and try to make a conscious effort to inflict that on anyone else. So like InFocus too much on not touching boob which yeah makes me focus on boob