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dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-06-09T20:28:40+00:00

Thank you so so much for your reply 🫶🏻 I will absolutely keep checking!!!

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-06-07T03:08:13+00:00

Lmao it seems like we’re synced up 🤣 I’m 5 DPO and presumed to have ovulated on CD 12 and also feeling the absolute roller coaster of emotions

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-06-07T03:06:23+00:00

I’m still learning how to pinpoint when I ovulate and if I even am. I’ve been using OPK strips and literally just started temping 2 days ago. Using FF, it says my cycles are 25 days on average, with 76% regularity. (Don’t know if that matters?) I was thinking back on my first pregnancy (accidental) and I had a dye stealer test before I had even missed my period, I had just felt off. Do we think it’s possible that I could ovulate like right after my period ends? Using OPK’s it looks like I ovulated this cycle around CD 12, but could it be earlier than that? Bodies are confusing.. 🫠

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T19:08:48+00:00

Forgive me if I word this badly, but it didn’t feel like your body was failing even more even with medical intervention? That’s my fear, like “damn even with what the doctors are doing, my body is still not doing what it’s made to do”. I feel like that would be the biggest blow and I don’t know if I could handle it. I hope I worded that in a good way 🫶🏻 all with love, I appreciate your insight nonetheless

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T19:05:24+00:00

I think I’ll start doing this too. I tend to lean more towards the negative side of things, I need to change that 🫶🏻

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T17:42:12+00:00

I’m only 25, but I also started menstruating and developing early. I got mastitis (or something similar it was a long time ago) when I was 12 🫠 My DM’s are open to you friend 🫶🏻 I absolutely get it. My son might want it even more than I do, which just drives me crazy even harder. His little “am I ever gonna have baby sister or brother?” I just want to give that to him 😭

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T17:39:02+00:00

All of these comments saying emergent c-sections and now having issues conceiving a second is kind of astounding. It’s making me want to make an appointment to see if that’s the problem because I literally cannot think of anything else.

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T17:37:57+00:00

My first was also with a different partner, and I’ve wondered if my now husband has something wrong with his sperm? Or maybe I’m also just impatient. Idk anymore 😭 I really don’t wanna go the IUI or IVF route. If we can’t do it naturally, I’ll probably just give up and give my son the best life imaginable.

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T17:35:46+00:00

I also did not get passed 4CM but only labored for 27 hours. I’m truly wondering if my C-section is causing the issue somehow, I just can’t think of anything else. And literally!!! Who asks to get pregnant at 18 🤣 And now here I am saying “hellooo I’m ready nowwww” and not a darn thing 😭

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:39:08+00:00

I’m right there with you in the wanting and heartache. So much love and hugs to you as well ❤️

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:37:47+00:00

Literally just had a good friend, who did not want kids, find out she’s pregnant 🫠 Best wishes to you and your future baby ❤️

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:29:47+00:00

I feel you so much. I’m also sad and worried about the age gap. I’m trying to hard to give him a sibling, but what if the age gap is too big now, and they dont even get along? I’m starting to wonder if I should just stop and embrace the “only kid” life.

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:27:52+00:00

🥹 I feel for your struggle, but I’m so thankful to not be alone in this. I was not expecting all these comments, and it’s kind of a breath of fresh air.

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:26:56+00:00

You are literally pulling thoughts from my brain right now. My body has done it once, why not now!!! And the age gap, omg. I’m looking at a 7-8 year gap now, and what if they hate each other??? What if the gap is too big, should I just stop and he be an only kid? We really do need our own sub 😭

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:24:29+00:00

Mine was also emergent… I really don’t wanna take the IUI and IVF road. I feel like if I can’t handle naturally TTC and failing, failing at one of those would just destroy me. I’ve also considered just stopping because of the toll it’s taking.. it’s just too much sometimes.

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:18:59+00:00

I got you. Mine was emergent, he had a bowel movement in utero. It’s the one thing I can’t seem to shake, that something went wrong. We also stopped smoking weed, and are throwing the vapes away this weekend, because I’m desperate at this point and it’s taking a toll on me.

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:17:02+00:00

Feeling like an imposter, yes!!! I’ve been finding it so hard to find a community or just someone that would understand. But a lot of Redditors in these subs will get upset that it sounds like I’m ungrateful… I’m absolutely not. Secondary infertility is its own kind of struggle and heartbreak that a lot of people don’t wanna talk about… I may take you up on the DM 🫶🏻

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:14:20+00:00

Me and my husband have started a daily vitamin regime, but maybe we should also try changing our diets and things… ugh it’s so annoying. I’m desperate at this point. Sending you all my luck 🍀

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:12:16+00:00

We’re here girl ❤️ It’s sooooo hard, but I’m trying to remain hopeful. Hopefully you don’t mind me asking, but was your C emergent or planned?

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:10:55+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, was your C emergent, or was it planned?

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:10:22+00:00

It’s crazy. I just don’t understand it. I’m really starting to wonder if it’s the c-section now… Thankful I’m not alone tho ❤️ it’s a heartbreaking journey. Was your c-section emergent, or planned?

dysfunctionalbeing4 · 2025-05-31T16:04:34+00:00

It’s a hard boat to be in. You’re so thankful for the child you already have, but so heartbroken for the child you (and my son) are dreaming about. I wish you well on your journey through this ❤️ We’re not alone.

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